Solutions To Unhappiness

Eastern Wisdom

 zenhabits
... breathe

Imagine
by guest
22 May 2012 at 9:44am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Chris Guillebeau of ChrisGuillebeau.com. Imagine a life where all your time is spent on the things you want to do. Imagine giving your greatest attention to a project you create yourself, instead of working as a cog in a machine that exists to make other people rich. [...]
The Little Guide to Contentedness
by Leo
18 May 2012 at 1:31pm
‘He who is contented is rich.’ ~Lao Tzu Post written by Leo Babauta. There has been little in my life that has made as much an impact as learning to be content — with my life, where I am, what I’m doing, what I have, who I’m with, who I am. This little trick changes [...]
The 9-5 Guide to Staying Active
by guest
15 May 2012 at 9:00am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Matt Madeiro of Make Every Day Count. Let?s see if this rings any bells. When the clock hits 8, I sit. I plop back in my rolling chair, crack open the laptop on my desk, and spend the next nine hours with my butt glued firmly to [...]
Three Little Habits to Find Focus
by Leo
10 May 2012 at 11:42am
‘Distraction is the only thing that consoles us for miseries and yet it is itself the greatest of our miseries.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. I’ll be the first to admit that I fall victim to the trap of the Internet — a wonderful empowering tool that can fill your day with distractions, [...]
How to Live Well
by Leo
7 May 2012 at 1:59pm
‘Begin at once to live, and count each separate day as a separate life.’ ~Seneca Post written by Leo Babauta. I’m not a rich man, nor do I fly around the world and drink champagne with famous people in exotic locales, nor do I own a sports car or SUV or a yacht. And yet, [...]
What I?ve Learned About Learning
by Leo
3 May 2012 at 9:07am
‘We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself.’ ~Lloyd Alexander Post written by Leo Babauta. I am a teacher and an avid learner, and I’m passionate about both. I’m a teacher because I help Eva homeschool our kids — OK, [...]
The 39th Lesson
by Leo
30 Apr 2012 at 9:05am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Today (April 30) is my 39th Un-un-birthday, and as usual, the day is a good day to pause and reflect. Last year I wrote 38 Life Lessons I?ve Learned in 38 Years, and people seemed to find some use in it. This year, I thought I’d share an additional lesson [...]
How to Fail at Habits
by Leo
24 Apr 2012 at 11:28am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Before I learned how to change habits, I was stuck. I kept trying to change various habits — running, eating healthier, waking earlier, getting out of debt, ending procrastination — and I kept failing. I got very good at failing, in fact. Looking back on those days, given the power [...]
Webinar: How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life
by Leo
23 Apr 2012 at 8:00am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Yesterday I conducted a free webinar, “How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life“, and the video is below. The webinar was held Mon. April 23), and in it I talked about my struggle with bad habits, why bad habits are so powerful, and how I [...]
Crazy Talk: The Do-What-You-Love Guide
by Leo
19 Apr 2012 at 11:36am
‘Everything you can imagine is real.’ ~Pablo Picasso Post written by Leo Babauta. When I wrote the first words of this blog, more than five years ago, I had no idea those few keystrokes would change my life. I thought I was doing nothing more than reflecting on the changes that had been happening in [...]

 

 

Find Out

ABOUT

This

Ebook

how to be happy ebook

How to be

Happy Ebook



Solutions To Unhappiness

Here is your Saturday STORY on: SOLVING PROBLEMS: Most people solve problems by thrusting themselves headlong into them and hoping they come out smelling of roses. How much attention should you give to a problem? As much as is needed! How best to resolve a problem is initially based upon your store of knowledge and experience. Most every day the smaller problems are resolved using this store; if we don't pause for thought as a bigger problem arises, we'll rush in using this store of principles and beliefs. Pausing will allow us to consider whether we need to add to that store with new information for this new and larger problem. Time may be of the essence, but accuracy has a far better way of equipping you for life. Find the time to acquire the information you need to solve the problem. To RECOGNISE you're not properly equipped to solve a problem is half the battle. It is no sin, you will not lose face, your pride will still be intact and your peers will not ridicule your efforts to approach the problem in the proper manner. In today's story we have displayed honesty and fair play, which is a rare quality in business. But when so much emphasis is placed upon tactics, it is good to hear a story such as this. THE WINDOW SALESMAN Allow me to introduce you to Terry, a window salesman from England. If I take you back about 20 years, you'd know Terry as a complete newbie... a not-long-since teenager who was wet behind the ears in just about everything he attempted. The kind of person who couldn't sell false teeth to his own Granny; let alone compete with the other salespeople in the industry. You know the kind who could sell snow to Eskimos. So. to add a twist to this scenario, Terry's boss decides to send him out on a practical field trip on his first day. He throws him right into the deep end by asking him to visit an interested prospect at the posh end of town... where the big money is in Windows/Double-glazing sales. So off he goes. He was extremely nervous. With his hands shaking and his knees nobbling, he approaches the front door and thuds the door knocker several times. An oldish woman approaches and, after his first shaking introduction, she invites him in. He stays there for over 3 hours. Then, after dozens of cups of tea and mounds of biscuits, the woman signs a contract and purchases over 7000 worth of windows (that's over $11, 000 in U.S. dollars!) And, Here's The REAL Kicker - The woman had already spoken with 6 other dynamite glazing salesmen that week. ALL of them offered her a cheaper quote! That's right - Terry's price was the MOST expensive. He was also the most inexperienced salesman there ever was. So, what happened in the background? And moreover, how can you replicate these powerful sales techniques to step up a notch on your own profit ladder? Here comes the secret. The woman said, "She liked the young lad more than the others." That's ALL there was to it. She didn't care about the extra expense. Even the other slick salesmen couldn't persuade her to pay LESS than this young chap was asking for. The truth is, this lad's first impression shone brighter than any of the sales talk the others subjected the old woman to. First impressions count, and this young lad's courtesy, attitude, politeness and likability are what closed the sale. Not the sales hype. Not the low prices with the gigantic over-hyped benefits. But, the actual 'personality' and 'impression' the kid honestly gave was all that was required. If you market your own products and services, consider what impression you are giving to your prospects. If you appeal to them, then you've already done half of the work. If this means redesigning your presentation, then so be it. If this means going out of your way to be polite, helpful and giving the best possible shopping experience to your customers, then so be it. Is it really too much work to secure those big sales? I'll leave you to ponder on that thought. (by Gary Hanley) QUOTE: 'The soul is dyed the colour of your thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you do is who you become.' (Heraclitus; 535-274 BC (Approx), Philosopher and Author) [[ct]]: Solutions To Unhappiness

Legal Solutions - Brothers & Sisters Lecture

20 Apr 2010 at 9:59am


Down with the Sickness - Summer 2007 (Sick of work, Chemical Medicine, Health

7 Jul 2010 at 12:45pm


Khaw Boon Wan said Bhutan people are mostly unhappy unlike Singapore - 19Oct2011

19 Oct 2011 at 9:48am



Next page: Work Stress


Solutions To Unhappiness News


I Cried Today at Work - BlogHer (blog)


BlogHer (blog)

I Cried Today at Work
BlogHer (blog)
For example: The unhealthful result of what experts call "emotional suppression" has been shown in studies to cloud thinking, promote job unhappiness and negatively impact work performance. That's why experts say that it's important for employees to be ...

Read more...


A Dim Conclusion: Play and Endgame at ACT - The San Francisco Appeal


The San Francisco Appeal

A Dim Conclusion: Play and Endgame at ACT
The San Francisco Appeal
It cuts the grimness with a helping of gallows humor ("nothing is funnier than unhappiness," one character famously notes), but there is no getting around it: the play is bleak - arresting when done well, but pretty darn bleak.

and more »

Read more...


Facing the bullies - Malaysia Star


Malaysia Star

Facing the bullies
Malaysia Star
Remember the solutions discussed with his or her parents. Lastly, reach out to trusted friends and adults,” Yong says. Sometimes, it's not the child's peers who are bullying him but people in positions of authority such as teachers or principals who ...

and more »

Read more...


Priming, pricing KL property for future - Malaysia Star


Malaysia Star

Priming, pricing KL property for future
Malaysia Star
The current unhappiness expressed by Malaysian house buyers however, are not those in the lower income bracket as there is an overhang of property in the lower price range. It has to do with the middle-income earners who would like to buy a house in a ...

and more »

Read more...


ADVICE: I made the wrong choice, now what? - The Horn


ADVICE: I made the wrong choice, now what?
The Horn
When we're unhappy, we're quick to think of solutions that will fix the immediate problem. These short-term answers might alleviate the pain for the time being, but when all is said and done, you'll find that any choice is only as good as your mindset.

Read more...


How to tackle teen rage - Times of India


How to tackle teen rage
Times of India
The solutions are easy to apply, provided parents take charge of the situation. Children indulging in smaller acts of violence in school need to be counselled and treated early. Teenagers who lie, bunk classes and get involved in fights are more prone ...

and more »

Read more...


OUR OPINION: Voters in France, Greece turn away from austerity - San Angelo Standard Times


OUR OPINION: Voters in France, Greece turn away from austerity
San Angelo Standard Times
Sunday's results were part of a pattern of voter unhappiness. Since the start of the economic crisis in 2008, 11 European leaders have been ousted from office, now six in the last year alone. The votes were, indeed, as many commentators have pointed ...

and more »

Read more...


The Morning Download: Nook Kindles CIO Hopes for a Windows Tablet - Wall Street Journal (blog)


The Morning Download: Nook Kindles CIO Hopes for a Windows Tablet
Wall Street Journal (blog)
Its CEO, Mark Thierer, says this “Trojan Horse” strategy makes acquisitions like the $4 billion deal for Catalyst Health Solutions that closed in April a lot easier to manage from the IT side. “Nobody knows how widely we're installed and the vantage ...

and more »

Read more...


Career of a lifetime - Trinidad News


Career of a lifetime
Trinidad News
We were providing IT solutions for them, by understanding their needs on how your money is spent and not waste it.” He enjoyed 14 successful years (1995-2009) but said, “It catches up to you in midlife. I was doing something that I wasn't really happy ...

Read more...


Analyst Commentary: Siebel - the first business software Goliath to be felled ... - BusinessCloud9


Analyst Commentary: Siebel - the first business software Goliath to be felled ...
BusinessCloud9
It is reported that IBM chose to move to SugarCRM because it found the open source nature of SugarCRM compelling, it liked the user interface look and feel (and Siebel is suffering much customer unhappiness with its web UI dependency on an ActiveX ...

and more »

Read more...



Why is marriage the only option?
for us to get our own lives?? why is this? is there another solution to unhappiness other than marriage?

Get the answers...