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Imagine
by guest
22 May 2012 at 9:44am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Chris Guillebeau of ChrisGuillebeau.com. Imagine a life where all your time is spent on the things you want to do. Imagine giving your greatest attention to a project you create yourself, instead of working as a cog in a machine that exists to make other people rich. [...]
The Little Guide to Contentedness
by Leo
18 May 2012 at 1:31pm
‘He who is contented is rich.’ ~Lao Tzu Post written by Leo Babauta. There has been little in my life that has made as much an impact as learning to be content — with my life, where I am, what I’m doing, what I have, who I’m with, who I am. This little trick changes [...]
The 9-5 Guide to Staying Active
by guest
15 May 2012 at 9:00am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Matt Madeiro of Make Every Day Count. Let?s see if this rings any bells. When the clock hits 8, I sit. I plop back in my rolling chair, crack open the laptop on my desk, and spend the next nine hours with my butt glued firmly to [...]
Three Little Habits to Find Focus
by Leo
10 May 2012 at 11:42am
‘Distraction is the only thing that consoles us for miseries and yet it is itself the greatest of our miseries.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. I’ll be the first to admit that I fall victim to the trap of the Internet — a wonderful empowering tool that can fill your day with distractions, [...]
How to Live Well
by Leo
7 May 2012 at 1:59pm
‘Begin at once to live, and count each separate day as a separate life.’ ~Seneca Post written by Leo Babauta. I’m not a rich man, nor do I fly around the world and drink champagne with famous people in exotic locales, nor do I own a sports car or SUV or a yacht. And yet, [...]
What I?ve Learned About Learning
by Leo
3 May 2012 at 9:07am
‘We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself.’ ~Lloyd Alexander Post written by Leo Babauta. I am a teacher and an avid learner, and I’m passionate about both. I’m a teacher because I help Eva homeschool our kids — OK, [...]
The 39th Lesson
by Leo
30 Apr 2012 at 9:05am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Today (April 30) is my 39th Un-un-birthday, and as usual, the day is a good day to pause and reflect. Last year I wrote 38 Life Lessons I?ve Learned in 38 Years, and people seemed to find some use in it. This year, I thought I’d share an additional lesson [...]
How to Fail at Habits
by Leo
24 Apr 2012 at 11:28am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Before I learned how to change habits, I was stuck. I kept trying to change various habits — running, eating healthier, waking earlier, getting out of debt, ending procrastination — and I kept failing. I got very good at failing, in fact. Looking back on those days, given the power [...]
Webinar: How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life
by Leo
23 Apr 2012 at 8:00am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Yesterday I conducted a free webinar, “How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life“, and the video is below. The webinar was held Mon. April 23), and in it I talked about my struggle with bad habits, why bad habits are so powerful, and how I [...]
Crazy Talk: The Do-What-You-Love Guide
by Leo
19 Apr 2012 at 11:36am
‘Everything you can imagine is real.’ ~Pablo Picasso Post written by Leo Babauta. When I wrote the first words of this blog, more than five years ago, I had no idea those few keystrokes would change my life. I thought I was doing nothing more than reflecting on the changes that had been happening in [...]

 

 

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Here is your Thursday STORY on: ADAPTING TO CHANGE: I have had a strange week this week, one of which has been several battles over certain changes. I don't refer specifically to major changes in my life, but little events that happen each week and for some strange reason haven't been happening this week. As a consequence of these changes I've had to change my routine. This has thrown out my good sense of equilibrium. I have practiced for some years to keep changes into check and avoid them controlling my next action. But inevitably... too many at once and a sense of confusion arises. This confusion is allowed to rise as you understand the reason for it. Adapting to change is not easy to cope with. This next story has a strange twist. Please read it first and I'll elaborate later. BELIEF! There was a well-educated man who solemnly announced to his friends that he would never believe anything which he could not understand. An old farmer overheard the remark, turned to the young intellectual and said, "As I went into town today, I passed a field where some sheep were feeding. Do you believe that?" "Yes, " said the young man. "Not far away from the sheep some cows were also grazing. Do you believe that?" "Yes, " was the reply. "Not far from the cows were some pigs eating grass. Do you believe that?" "Yes." "All right, now you listen to this, " said the farmer. "The grass the sheep ate turned into wool. The grass the cows ate turned into milk. The grass the pigs ate turned into fibre. The grass that the chicken eat turned into feathers. Do you believe that?" "Yes, " the young man said. "Do you understand it?" "No, " admitted the young man. "Young man, " said the farmer, "if you live long, you will find that there are a great many things which you believe without understanding. May I suggest the will of God is one of them." (by: Bruno Hagspiel, The Millennium Stories by Frank Mihalic) Of course I would suggest that understanding is half the battle. It is more of a 'knowing' a 'gut feeling' that I refer to. In a practical sense the word understanding is used. However, as we delve deeper into philosophy and wisdom, you'll come across the description that we KNOW rather than understand. To KNOW is and instant reaction. To try an analyse something beyond the KNOWING could confuse the issue. Just sometimes to KNOW is enough, without any explanation needed. The following quote is so simple it makes me smile every time I read it. If you find that adapting to change is difficult, bring this quote to mind. It isn't about returning, but changing course. QUOTE: 'Life is always going forward. If you feel you're going backwards, just turn around.' (Eva Gregory) [[ct]]: Single Happy

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Happy Birthday Ginnifer Goodwin! Today, May 22, You?re 34 Years Old!

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No storybook end, but a happy one for ?Kid K?

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Want to stay single? (From three years ago)?
Asking this question again from three years ago. I am 32 going on 33 and I am happy single....and never had a girlfriend nor had a relationship. I am still a virgin. I had one interest but it ended with disaster (She didn't want me only my money) Lasted 3 months! I want to stay single for the rest of my life... Love has brought me nothing but pain and close to suicide...from loneliness from craving a partner which I only had for only three months. Being single has brought me only good friends and rewards... Many people think I am crazy....but it's better to not need love then crave love and never get it. Friends tell me to "you will find someone"...or some other suger coated fairy tale....What bullshit!! I am not afraid to die alone..and slowly as every person tells me with their suger coated fairy tales that finding that I will find someone.....it's makes me want to tell them with extreme prejudice.."What fairy castle you crawled from?" Yes I know love is out there but for every single person on this earth? Might as well believe that the sky is made of suger and Chocolate covered rainbows... Am I crazy or have I seen too much of the negative sides of love? Should I continue with the pain of dating or let go be single happy? Will I be shunned by society becuase I choose to be single? Is it possible to hate on single people because they choose to be single yet never dated in their entire lives?

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do you respond to every happy birthday message you get on facebook?
i'm just wondering whether one should reply to every single happy birthday message they receive on facebook or is it ok to just put a status update saying thank you to everyone? which would you prefer?

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Why would an all loving God create angels with eternal happiness unearned, yet require us to earn it?
Why would a God who could make good children (children free from disease) as easily as bad, yet prefer to make bad ones? Who could have made everyone of them happy,but never made a single happy one. Who made them prize their bitter life, but cut it stingily short. Who gave his angels painless lives, but cursed his other children with biting miseries and maladies of the mind and body. Who mouths justice and invented hell -mouths mercy and invented hell- mouths Golden Rules and forgiveness multiplied by 7 times 77 and invented hell. Who mouths morals to other people and has none himself; who frowns upon crimes yet commits them all himself; who created man without invitation then tries to shuffle the responsibility for man's acts upon man instead of honorably placing it upon himself where it belongs and finally with altogether divine obtuseness invites this poor abused slave to worship him.

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