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The Pause Upon Which All Else Relies
by Leo
9 Feb 2012 at 8:56am
Post written by Leo Babauta. There is one little habit I’ve learned that has changed everything else in my life. The pause. When we fail, it’s because we act on urges without thinking, without realizing it. We have the urge to eat junk, and we do it. We have the urge to check email instead [...]
The Thousand Cuts Fitness Program
by Leo
6 Feb 2012 at 10:43am
Post written by Leo Babauta. I’ve trained for marathons, triathlons, 10Ks, a 13.5-hour challenge, Ubanathlons, and more. But my favorite fitness program isn’t one where you train for a major event. It’s where you get fit by a thousand little actions. When the actions are tiny, they are easy. You have no excuse. You can [...]
The Two-Headed Beast of Successful Habit Change
by guest
2 Feb 2012 at 9:20am
Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Tyler Tervooren of Advanced Riskology. I used to have a lot of bad habits. I still do, but I used to have a lot more. Here?s just a small sampling: I woke up late and went to bed early. I procrastinated on my most important work. I [...]
Create the Habit of Meditation, & the Zen Habits Premium Membership
by Leo
31 Jan 2012 at 3:03pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. It’s something I should have created a long time ago: the Zen Habits Premium Membership, and a mini-course that’s included with it called Create the Habit of Meditation. The membership is a monthly subscription of $19.99, but really it’s a commitment to changing your life, and the tools needed to [...]
Creating Silence from Chaos
by Leo
27 Jan 2012 at 3:20pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. We are often afraid of silence, because its emptiness feels idle, boring, unproductive, and scary. And so we fill our lives with chaos, noise, clutter. But silence can be lovely, and therapeutic, and powerful. It can be the remedy for our stress and the habits that crush us. If we [...]
The Habits That Crush Us
by Leo
23 Jan 2012 at 11:26am
‘Don’t panic.’ ~Douglas Adams Post written by Leo Babauta. Why is it that we cannot break the bad habits that stand in our way, crushing our desires to live a healthy life, be fit, simplify, be happier? How is it that our best intentions are nearly always beaten? We want to be focused and productive, [...]
Learning to Sit Alone, in a Quiet Empty Room
by Leo
17 Jan 2012 at 1:49pm
‘All men’s miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. Think about some of the problems of our daily lives, and how many of them would be eased if we could learn to sit alone, in a quiet empty room, with contentment. If [...]
Life as a Conscious Practice
by Leo
13 Jan 2012 at 9:15am
‘Everything is practice.’ ~Pele Post written by Leo Babauta. When we learn a martial art, or ballet, or gymnastics, or soccer ? we consciously practice movements in a deliberate way, repeatedly. By conscious, repeated practice, we become good at those movements. Our entire lives are like this, but we’re often less conscious of the practice. [...]
Your Top 10 Clutter Questions, Answered
by Leo
11 Jan 2012 at 11:33am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Decluttering is a skill that you learn with practice, just like any skill. And just like other skills, there are many little questions and problems you need answered and solved as you get started. Those of you taking the Clutterfat Challenge this month are facing these problems, and I’m here [...]
Clearing Your Life for a New Year
by Leo
9 Jan 2012 at 12:55pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. Every January, people rush out and get a gym membership, set a list of goals or resolutions, and get ready to take on a new year of frenetic activity. Unfortunately, we don’t often clear space to make room for all this new stuff. The beginning of the year is a [...]


Secret Of Being Happy

Here is your Saturday STORY on: SOLVING PROBLEMS: If you have a problem, what do you do and where do you go? Firstly we must be aware that being choked by a problem will only make you want to kick and scream. The resultant decision would be a forced one under duress. Ideally you would want to take time, care and attention over every decision. To do this with a good degree of success we must be within a calm state of mind. If we are confronted with a problem and a state of anguish and frustration arose we must first spot the condition and then resist it from affecting any decision we make. More often than not we forget to be grateful for the other things in life that we have. Today's story illustrates how an illness can suddenly make you see life clearly; and sadly for the lady who wrote this, too clear too late. IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER (written after discovery of terminal cancer) I would have talked less and listened more. I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained and the sofa faded. I would have eaten the popcorn in the "GOOD" living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace. I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth. I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed. I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage. I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains. I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life. I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day. I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment realizing that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle. When my kids kissed me impetuously, would never have said, "Later, now go get washed up for dinner." There would have been more "I love you's" ... more "I'm sorry's" ... but mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute ... look at it and really see it ... live it .. and never give it back. (Erma Bombeck) QUOTE: 'You have to make a conscious choice every day to shed the old - whatever 'the old' means for you. (Sarah Ban Breathnach)


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Takara no chizu - RPGamer

10 Feb 2012 at 8:09am  If they could tell me the secret message, they would get prize tickets to redeem ... At a guess, I would say that it's a combination of people being happy with their current PSPs, the pricing for the Vita and its peripherals, and the current lack of ...

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From Sun Magazine: Friends can have benefits for marriage, Maryland researche...

10 Feb 2012 at 7:33am  Unthinkable as that might be, new research by two professors from the University of Maryland School of Social Work suggests that the secret to a long and happy marriage might ... Most academic research currently being done in the U.S. homes ...

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Golden day for Kevin and Diane (From Salisbury Journal) - This is Salisbury

9 Feb 2012 at 11:55pm  Diane said the secret to a happy marriage is ?being understanding and always talking?. ?You just have to love each other as well,? she added.

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Former NFL star shares secrets for success with students - Richmond County Da...

9 Feb 2012 at 8:49pm  Quick was invited to speak to the group of students during their enrichment time at school, and he was happy to share some of the highlights ... ?There?s no magic wand or secret formula for being successful ? you have to discipline yourself ...

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When the other convicts ask ?What are ya in for?? you really don?t want to sa...

9 Feb 2012 at 6:04pm  The other day I predicted that Mitt Romney wouldn?t get glitterbombed anymore, now that he?s got Secret Service protection. I didn?t predict that being wrong about it would make me so happy. Reuters: DENVER ? A Colorado student faced ...

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Dwight Howard: Why Superman Should Force Orlando Magic's Hand - Bleacherrepor...

8 Feb 2012 at 4:54pm  Howard has made no secret about letting ... That wouldn't make Howard happy, as he would be leaving $30 million on the table if the Magic don't deal him this season. So for Howard, if he's really serious about being dealt, there's really only one option ...

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Love, laughter the secret - Weekly Times Now

7 Feb 2012 at 10:07am  The secret to a happy and lasting relationship is helping each other ... Fred and Gwen say the farm is now being run by one of their grandsons. Gwen says the secret to marriage - as well as good farming - is to always take a holiday.

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Family's secret now out in the open - Chicago Tribune

6 Feb 2012 at 11:49am  Dossett said that most people think of Canada as being multiracial ? and it ... had left their family's story alone, many are happy to know the truth about their ancestry. "Because of that secret, I had an entire family in Canada I didn ...

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'Hart of Dixie' Recap: A Mistress Named Carl - Buddytv.com

30 Jan 2012 at 7:56pm  So Zoe is being weird as of late, all happy and such, which Wade equates to good sex ... Girls Night! But it must be a secret friendship because Lemon is even crazier than usual (really, she's just more unlikable than usual). Annabeth doesn't want to ...

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The secrets to a happy marriage - Daily Telegraph

27 Jan 2012 at 6:45am  Knowing when to say sorry is a big step in the right direction for 33 per cent of people, while 35 per cent claim to be happy because they share the household chores out equally. Compromising on the television schedule, being honest, retaining a degree of ...

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