Reasons Why Sorrow
Here is your Thursday STORY on: ADAPTING TO CHANGE: Often the big fear with CHANGE is the position it leaves you in. It may result in your respect being lost, your house, your job or your standing in the community. If we put too much of a value on these, then the change is feared most. At the end of the day these do have value, but what about your health, your smile and all the other values? We can often forget that in reality our health has more priority than our house. If we lose our house, we haven't lost our health, our depth of character, our smile, our honesty and our integrity. We can always get another house, but we can't always get our health fully back to its original state. Rather than see a change as the end, the sorrowful and pitiful, the miserable and frustrating; and ultimately wallow in this sadness and wonder what to do. We should realise that with every end there is a new beginning. We should forget all the pity, forget all the need for consolation and allow this period of sadness to end too. We should SEE a chance to start again, start over. What better position can we be in, if we've experienced the troubles that has caused an ENDING, we'll be aware of the pitfalls and avoid them in our new beginning. Sometimes as we stay with the moral high ground and find we suffer as a consequence, is it not the case that we're obviously putting too much value in the sufferance? If you stick with your good morals and for some reason you go down one rung of the ladder, why have you suffered? You haven't suffered, what you have done is chose to give value to the subject that's taken you down the rung of the ladder. It may have been the house you lost, when you should have considered that although the house has gone your health and fit mind remains intact. More often than not it isn't what happens in life that is the problem it is how we perceive it upon our lifestyle. If we adjust our view, we can get back on track. Today's story is the perfect illustration of keeping the moral high ground and at first thinking you've suffered a loss; but with due consideration the values had been wrong until you'd reconsidered. WHAT GOOD IS INTEGRITY? After a workshop, Paul (that's not his real name) said that he still has 10-year-old scars from the time he quit a good job rather than lie. When his boss asked him to issue a press release containing patently false statements, he refused, putting his employee badge on the table. His boss calmly handed the badge back to him saying, "Think this over. Why throw away a good job and a promising career?" Paul walked out so frustrated and frightened, he had to find a private place to cry. What's worse, he said that his act of moral courage was a meaningless waste. Someone else issued the press release and his boss's career flourished. "It took me years to find a job as good as that one and my family suffered, " he added. "So, what good did my integrity do for anyone?" Paul was looking for validation of his principled stance in the wrong places. We exercise integrity not to get what we want, but to be what we want. Integrity is not essentially about winning; it's about staying whole and being worthy of self-respect and the esteem of loved ones. It's about being honourable, not as a success strategy, but a life choice. Though Paul suffered for a time because of his moral courage, he would have suffered far worse had he betrayed his own values. While he didn't appreciate it, Paul preserved for himself and his family something far more valuable than his job -- his honour. And it's no accident that he now has a better job with no pressures to cheat or lie. (Michael Josephson, Speaker and Radio Commentator) QUOTE: 'It is not financial wealth one asks for, but just enough to preserve one's dignity, to work unhampered, to be generous, frank and independent.' (W. Somerset Maugham, 'Of Human Bondage', 1915)
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Just one big, happy (racing) family - ESPN
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Happy Feet: Tips For Healthier Running - Minnesota Public Radio
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Happy Dog Bite Prevention Week! - Brookfield Elm Grove Now (blog)
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Wendy Williams celebrates 500th show: 'I am so happy to be here' - Examiner.com
23 May 2012 at 11:07am Examiner.com ?I must say I am so happy to be here. Here's the thing I am so appreciative to be here.? Wendy Williams has worked hard to keep the show going. With countless guests, lots of gossip and plenty of fashion, the talk show host keeps it fresh every day ... and more » |
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Albany coach happy to have spotted Staten Island's McFarland - SILive.com
23 May 2012 at 10:32am  SILive.com | SILive.com Although Albany (36-14) failed in its bid to repeat, Ms. Cannata couldn't be happier with her freshman lead-off hitter. ?Vicky is a complete player,? said Ms. Cannata, ?and she got better and better as the season progressed. |
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Happiness: Reversing the Formula - Huffington Post
23 May 2012 at 9:35am Huffington Post If we meet the right person, if we have the perfect job with the perfect title, if we buy the big home, if we travel the world, if we continue to get richer... then we will be happy. We believe the external rewards will fulfill and fuel our internal ... and more » |
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Coyotes not happy with Dustin Brown hit; Mike Smith thinks Brown should be .....
23 May 2012 at 9:15am CBSSports.com (blog) Pretty clearly he's not happy with the officials (I'm astute, aren't I?) but does his best not to diminish what the Kings did. Smith? Well he was a bit more straightforward and harsh of the one King in particular; Brown (via CBC and Sarah McLellan). and more » |
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Leap Motion creates finger-happy gesture control (w/ Video) - Phys.Org
23 May 2012 at 2:03am Phys.Org (Phys.org) -- Developers and end users both have been indicating they are ready to start saying long goodbyes to mouse and keyboard. In this touchscreen generation of mobile users, the big stir among gadget reviewers this week is the announcement by ... and more » |
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Clayton Christensen and How Will You Measure Your Life? - Huffington Post (blog)
22 May 2012 at 5:02pm Huffington Post (blog) (with James Allworth and Karen Dillon), which attempts to tell readers how to be happy and satisfied with their lives. The book apparently came from a graduation speech at HBS in 2010 (there are similarities to Steve Jobs' graduation exhortation), ... and more » |
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What We Know Now About How to Be Happy - The Atlantic
17 May 2012 at 8:57am  The Atlantic | The Atlantic Just last month, for example, a study reported that cardiovascular health is significantly better in people who report being happier. On one level, there is an obvious explanation to the phenomenon: Happy people are more likely to engage in the healthy ... |
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