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Imagine
by guest
22 May 2012 at 9:44am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Chris Guillebeau of ChrisGuillebeau.com. Imagine a life where all your time is spent on the things you want to do. Imagine giving your greatest attention to a project you create yourself, instead of working as a cog in a machine that exists to make other people rich. [...]
The Little Guide to Contentedness
by Leo
18 May 2012 at 1:31pm
‘He who is contented is rich.’ ~Lao Tzu Post written by Leo Babauta. There has been little in my life that has made as much an impact as learning to be content — with my life, where I am, what I’m doing, what I have, who I’m with, who I am. This little trick changes [...]
The 9-5 Guide to Staying Active
by guest
15 May 2012 at 9:00am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Matt Madeiro of Make Every Day Count. Let?s see if this rings any bells. When the clock hits 8, I sit. I plop back in my rolling chair, crack open the laptop on my desk, and spend the next nine hours with my butt glued firmly to [...]
Three Little Habits to Find Focus
by Leo
10 May 2012 at 11:42am
‘Distraction is the only thing that consoles us for miseries and yet it is itself the greatest of our miseries.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. I’ll be the first to admit that I fall victim to the trap of the Internet — a wonderful empowering tool that can fill your day with distractions, [...]
How to Live Well
by Leo
7 May 2012 at 1:59pm
‘Begin at once to live, and count each separate day as a separate life.’ ~Seneca Post written by Leo Babauta. I’m not a rich man, nor do I fly around the world and drink champagne with famous people in exotic locales, nor do I own a sports car or SUV or a yacht. And yet, [...]
What I?ve Learned About Learning
by Leo
3 May 2012 at 9:07am
‘We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself.’ ~Lloyd Alexander Post written by Leo Babauta. I am a teacher and an avid learner, and I’m passionate about both. I’m a teacher because I help Eva homeschool our kids — OK, [...]
The 39th Lesson
by Leo
30 Apr 2012 at 9:05am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Today (April 30) is my 39th Un-un-birthday, and as usual, the day is a good day to pause and reflect. Last year I wrote 38 Life Lessons I?ve Learned in 38 Years, and people seemed to find some use in it. This year, I thought I’d share an additional lesson [...]
How to Fail at Habits
by Leo
24 Apr 2012 at 11:28am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Before I learned how to change habits, I was stuck. I kept trying to change various habits — running, eating healthier, waking earlier, getting out of debt, ending procrastination — and I kept failing. I got very good at failing, in fact. Looking back on those days, given the power [...]
Webinar: How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life
by Leo
23 Apr 2012 at 8:00am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Yesterday I conducted a free webinar, “How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life“, and the video is below. The webinar was held Mon. April 23), and in it I talked about my struggle with bad habits, why bad habits are so powerful, and how I [...]
Crazy Talk: The Do-What-You-Love Guide
by Leo
19 Apr 2012 at 11:36am
‘Everything you can imagine is real.’ ~Pablo Picasso Post written by Leo Babauta. When I wrote the first words of this blog, more than five years ago, I had no idea those few keystrokes would change my life. I thought I was doing nothing more than reflecting on the changes that had been happening in [...]

 

 

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Here is your Tuesday STORY on: SELF DEVELOPMENT: Can we ever be sure of making the right decision? Whenever one is asked to improve oneself, you would be perfectly correct in assuming that any knowledge gained, would also extend your skill and judgement in making decisions. QUOTE: 'If you motivate an idiot with enthusiasm, all you get is a motivated idiot. You need to educate first.' (Jim Rohn) To self develop in any manner whatsoever we must therefore be aware that education is a much needed ingredient. We must also be aware that there are dozens of opportunities each day to advance our knowledge, but often they simply pass us by. Instead of puffing and panting and being troubled by your daily events we need to see our day as invigorating and challenging. If we remain positive there is little that would stop our stride. Yet on the other hand if we become negative our 'today' follows the same pattern as yesterday. So the reality to study is that if we don't continually self develop; each day will be the same. Perhaps a few different situations along the way but we fall back into the same old thought pattern that never resolves anything. We must remember therefore to expect a new challenge each and every day, wait in anticipation and be invigorated by its attendance. In being positive we SEE the opportunities arise. Today's story illustrates an important event that helped educate. From this knowledge a greater understanding of compassion; plus the importance of living in the NOW became tools that were never forgotten. DARYLE, I'VE GOT A BUNCH OF THEM They were in all different sizes, ranks and poses. They were even on different sides. They were miniature Revolutionary War soldiers made out of pewter. They were well-crafted and amazing things to see. They were given to me and I took them, without even mumbling a "much obliged." My older cousin, Daryle, had given them to me. Daryle was all dressed up in his army uniform. He looked even more impressive than the little soldiers. I didn't really want the little soldiers he offered me, but I took them. Daryle was older that I was and, as my elder, he deserved some respect. I was at that awkward age when it came to such things. I was too old to play with the small troops and too young to really appreciate them. The only material things I was interested in at that age were my baseball glove, my GE transistor radio with the earplugs and my dream car, that I would be much too young to drive, even if I could afford to buy it. My mother always told me that a person can never be too thankful. Even with that wonderful instruction, I had neglected to thank Daryle for the little soldiers. I wish my mother had taken them from me, along with my old comic books and baseball cards, and told me that she would give them back to me when I turned 30, in the hopes that I would have developed a brain by then. I had a Springfield single-shot .22 rifle. I wanted to practice with it. Daryle had shown me his marksmanship badge and I thought maybe I could earn myself one of those one day. He was plenty proud of that badge and told me that it had taken a lot of practice to get it. A decent target cost good money and I wasn't much of a hunter, so the little soldiers were the perfect prey for me. I set the little army men up on a rock pile and then began picking them off one-by-one with my Springfield rifle. The shooting did wonders for my marksmanship, but it didn't do the little pewter figures much good. Soon they were all gone -- shot to pieces -- yet another item tossed upon my life's scrap heap. Time passed. I had forgotten all about the tiny pewter soldiers until I received word that Daryle had been killed in Vietnam. The day he gave me the little soldiers was the last day I was to ever see Daryle alive. He left a wife and two young children. I wanted to bring Daryle back. I wanted to bring those little army men back. I never did thank Daryle for those little soldiers. Perhaps playing with the little soldiers is what made Daryle want to make the Army his career. I will never know. Since that day that I learned of Daryle's death, I try very hard to thank everyone for everything. Sometimes I forget, but I try real hard. Some years ago, I made a trip to Washington, DC, and visited the Vietnam Memorial. I was going to make rubbings of Daryle's name on the Memorial Wall, keeping one for myself and giving the rest to a number of my aunts. I was doing okay at this task until a little blond haired girl, wearing a white dress, put a flower at the base of a row of names. This little girl, probably the grandchild of one of the deceased, brought back a flood of memories for me. She caused me to give much thought to Daryle and some to those little Revolutionary War soldiers made out of pewter, as I stood by that Wall. I cried as I made a rubbing of Daryle's name from that Wall of names of people who died doing their duty in the jungles of a foreign land. It took me a number of attempts before I was able to finish making the rubbings. I never thanked Daryle for the little pewter soldiers. I never thanked Daryle for serving this country well, for being willing to die for all of us back home. For some reason, I know that whenever I thank a veteran, that Daryle hears me and understands that I am thanking him, too. (Al Batt) QUOTE: "If you don't have a vision for the future, then your future is threatened to be a repeat of the past.' (A. R. Bernard, Clergyman) [[ct]]: Mental Depression

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My wife is asking for Alimony with just 2 months we lived together.?
Hi, I am working in USA and got married to girl in India. I went to get marry her in India and had honeymoon there after I left India in a month. In our honeymoon and between period of she in India and I came here while her H4 was filed we had lots of differences. She misbehaved and used abuse language. But to save my marriage I call her to USA. After coming to USA within a month she become so aggressive day by day and one she started hitting me and throwing stuff in house. So I call USA cops and they took her statement and took mine. In the statement cops clearly mentioned that she has misbehaved. And then next day under cops observation I send her to India in a flight because she requested that. After she landed India me and her parents tried to come up with a solution but nothing worked out on compromise. So finally I asked her to divorce me and she told me I won't give you divorce just like that so I asked her what amount she wants but she is not ready to accept any mutual amount and she sometimes agree but then changes her mind. So finally we filed divorce on basis of cruelty.She didn't come in court for first date. But now she has send us another notice with just asking Alimony and stating that I want to live with my husband but he is not ready for that. In her notice there is nothing else mentioned only thing she said is I want to live with my husband and he is not inviting me to USA and if he is not then he needs to pay me Alimony. I tried for 1 yr and her misbehavior continued how can I live with her and now I have decided I don't want to live with her. She made me in such a bad state that I left my job due to mental depression thank GOD I got new job I am on H1B. I have made very hard effort to come out of it now. But now she is asking like 50000 Rs per month alimony and plus 10 lakh of alimony till now. I have lawyer already hired he said don't worry good thing is she reacted. But my concern is will I get divorce soon. Or will it drag for long. How much alimony she is entitled to as we lived only 2 months together and I have USA police statement as proof that she wants to not live with me, which she said when USA police took her statement. I want to get out of this as this is also effecting my parents a lot. Please help thanks. I have filed divorce in India and she had file alimony in India not in USA. Can she prolong divorce I don't mind giving her 5 lakh Rs and just finish it up quickly. But she is not ready to talk and now she is asking Alimony plus maintenance till now for 10 lakh. But that 50000 a month and 10 lakh is only Alimony she is asking..she has not told that she will give divorce after she receive that. What will happen if she does not appear in court again? Can i go to india or there can be chance of passport impound? Right now on notice she has not mentioned anything bad about me or my family.

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When is the right time to tell my son he is adopted?
I have been stressing about this a lot lately, I have started college and met a friend, Antoinette, her and I got to talking to her, I told her how I adopted a son, and she went on to tell me she was adopted and never found out until she was 17 and it ruined her life, she had mental depression, had to go to therapy and wish she was told sooner so she wasn't so suprised. This obviously has scared me, I adopted Cain (my son) since the day he was born, he is 4 now, and he is Biracial, he asked me the other day "Where is my dad, and is he black?" I just didn't know what to say, and I changed the subject and said I needed to check the baby in the other room. I have a daughter now who is 4 weeks old and she is my own, He says she doesn't look like him but he doesn't know what adopting is. I am wondering, when shall I tell him? how should I tell him? His mom was my best friend who died through child birth (with him)? I am very confused and would love answers.

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question about sex problem?
I am 24.When I masturbating in free time alone, I immediately loose my confidence,undergo mental depression and become temporarily lazy for that day. I know if I stop MASTURBATING then my problem can be solved.But is their any other way to cure my mental depression,confidence and laziness after doing this act.

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