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The Pause Upon Which All Else Relies
by Leo
9 Feb 2012 at 8:56am
Post written by Leo Babauta. There is one little habit I’ve learned that has changed everything else in my life. The pause. When we fail, it’s because we act on urges without thinking, without realizing it. We have the urge to eat junk, and we do it. We have the urge to check email instead [...]
The Thousand Cuts Fitness Program
by Leo
6 Feb 2012 at 10:43am
Post written by Leo Babauta. I’ve trained for marathons, triathlons, 10Ks, a 13.5-hour challenge, Ubanathlons, and more. But my favorite fitness program isn’t one where you train for a major event. It’s where you get fit by a thousand little actions. When the actions are tiny, they are easy. You have no excuse. You can [...]
The Two-Headed Beast of Successful Habit Change
by guest
2 Feb 2012 at 9:20am
Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Tyler Tervooren of Advanced Riskology. I used to have a lot of bad habits. I still do, but I used to have a lot more. Here?s just a small sampling: I woke up late and went to bed early. I procrastinated on my most important work. I [...]
Create the Habit of Meditation, & the Zen Habits Premium Membership
by Leo
31 Jan 2012 at 3:03pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. It’s something I should have created a long time ago: the Zen Habits Premium Membership, and a mini-course that’s included with it called Create the Habit of Meditation. The membership is a monthly subscription of $19.99, but really it’s a commitment to changing your life, and the tools needed to [...]
Creating Silence from Chaos
by Leo
27 Jan 2012 at 3:20pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. We are often afraid of silence, because its emptiness feels idle, boring, unproductive, and scary. And so we fill our lives with chaos, noise, clutter. But silence can be lovely, and therapeutic, and powerful. It can be the remedy for our stress and the habits that crush us. If we [...]
The Habits That Crush Us
by Leo
23 Jan 2012 at 11:26am
‘Don’t panic.’ ~Douglas Adams Post written by Leo Babauta. Why is it that we cannot break the bad habits that stand in our way, crushing our desires to live a healthy life, be fit, simplify, be happier? How is it that our best intentions are nearly always beaten? We want to be focused and productive, [...]
Learning to Sit Alone, in a Quiet Empty Room
by Leo
17 Jan 2012 at 1:49pm
‘All men’s miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. Think about some of the problems of our daily lives, and how many of them would be eased if we could learn to sit alone, in a quiet empty room, with contentment. If [...]
Life as a Conscious Practice
by Leo
13 Jan 2012 at 9:15am
‘Everything is practice.’ ~Pele Post written by Leo Babauta. When we learn a martial art, or ballet, or gymnastics, or soccer ? we consciously practice movements in a deliberate way, repeatedly. By conscious, repeated practice, we become good at those movements. Our entire lives are like this, but we’re often less conscious of the practice. [...]
Your Top 10 Clutter Questions, Answered
by Leo
11 Jan 2012 at 11:33am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Decluttering is a skill that you learn with practice, just like any skill. And just like other skills, there are many little questions and problems you need answered and solved as you get started. Those of you taking the Clutterfat Challenge this month are facing these problems, and I’m here [...]
Clearing Your Life for a New Year
by Leo
9 Jan 2012 at 12:55pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. Every January, people rush out and get a gym membership, set a list of goals or resolutions, and get ready to take on a new year of frenetic activity. Unfortunately, we don’t often clear space to make room for all this new stuff. The beginning of the year is a [...]


Make Yourself Available

Here is your Monday STORY on: LOVE: There are too many occasions when we give up an opportunity to do a good deed. More often the emotion in existence when we decide against it is normally lethargy; 'For some reason we just can't be bothered.' This emotion of course exists either when we adopt a negative state of mind or when it causes the negativity itself. Being negative is a severe hindrance, but the emotion to nullify its effect is LOVE. The next time you pass the opportunity to do a good deed; begin to love the situation, the object and the person who needs the help and you'll trigger a positive response. Today's story is one of reality, but you'll only recognise its full potential as you grow to love it... THESE THINGS I WISH FOR We tried so hard to make things better for our kids that we made them worse. For my grandchildren, I'd like better. I'd really like for them to know about hand me down clothes and homemade ice cream and leftover meat loaf sandwiches. I really would. I hope you learn humility by being humiliated, and that you learn honesty by being cheated. I hope you learn to make your own bed and mow the lawn and wash the car. And I really hope nobody gives you a brand new car when you are sixteen. It will be good if at least one time you can see puppies born and your old dog put to sleep. I hope you get a black eye fighting for something you believe in. I hope you have to share a bedroom with your younger brother. And it's all right if you have to draw a line down the middle of the room, but when he wants to crawl under the covers with you because he's scared, I hope you let him. When you want to see a movie and your little brother wants to tag along, I hope you'll let him. I hope you have to walk uphill to school with your friends and that you live in a town where you can do it safely. On rainy days, when you have to catch a ride, I hope you don't ask your driver to drop you two blocks away so you won't be seen riding with someone as uncool as your Mom. If you want a slingshot, I hope your Dad teaches you how to make one instead of buying one. I hope you learn to dig in the dirt and read books. When you learn to use computers, I hope you also learn to add and subtract in your head. I hope you get teased by your friends when you have your first crush on a girl, and when you talk back to your mother that you learn what ivory soap tastes like. May you skin your knee climbing a mountain, burn your hand on a stove and stick your tongue on a frozen flagpole. I don't care if you try a beer once, but I hope you don't like it. And if a friend offers you dope or a joint, I hope you realize he is not your friend. I sure hope you make time to sit on a porch with your Grandpa and go fishing with your Uncle. May you feel sorrow at a funeral and joy during the holidays. I hope your mother punishes you when you throw a baseball through your neighbour's window and that she hugs you and kisses you at Christmas time when you give her a plaster mould of your hand. These things I wish for you - tough times and disappointment, hard work and happiness. To me, it's the only way to appreciate life. (Lee Pitts) QUOTE: "I shall pass this way but once. Therefore any good that I can do, or any kindness that I can show, let me do it now for I shall not pass this way again." (William Penn)


Is this a craigslist scam?
I responded to a craigslist post about driving someone around for 2 hours a day for a week. This was the response email that I got: Hi There, Thank you for responding to my ADS on craigslist.My name is ------ & interested in hiring your service for my wife who is coming to your city for the first time.I have informed my wife concerning the pick up from airport and other purpose which she might need you for when she get to your city.I believe you're fit for this position in as much you will prove yourself as a reliable and good person.Her arrival date is august 15th & i'll prefer you have your car ready & available for the task.I am offering you $600 for 6 days & $100 for gas.You will make yourself available to her schedule for 2 hours each day for 6 days. Concerning the payment,my client will be sending you a money gram money order in the amount of $2550.. You're to deduct your pay & the remaining funds will be use by my wife for her travel expenses,accommodations and any other expenses.Kindly get back to me with the following details of yours if you're capable and ready for this task *Your Full Name *Your Home Address *City *State *Zip Code *Your Phone Number Kindly get back to me as soon as you can so that the payment can be issue on your name and send to your address overnight.Thank you for your co-operation & kind gesture.I'll be looking forward to hearing back from you as soon as possible. Regards. It just seems very odd, and I doubt that I'll respond at all but just seeing what other people thought.

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OKAY. I need help with boys.?
okay, so as a girl, how would you make yourself available yet almost unattainable to another guy? Make him chase after you, instead of the other way around? Anyone have any ideas? but how do i play hard to get?!

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I am forwarding a letter to all to answer whether it is a cheating business?
Yahoo/Msn & Microsoft Lottery Incoperation Baley House, Har Road Sutton, Greater London SM1 4te United Kingdom. Attn: Lucky Winner, How are you doing today, I hope fine. Congratulations, This is to formally inform you that you have been cleared by the screening committee of the Yahoo/Msn & Microsoft Lottery United Kingdom, and you are now been declared as one of the legitimate receipient of the said amount. A diplomate is asigned for the delivery of your parcel to you at your door-step in your location at your country. Note that all informations and your compalete contact address and phone number of your's is on your parcel which will enable the diplomate to locate you in your country. Please make yourself available to receive your parcel and to sign the delivery manuscript at the point of delivery. Your parcel contain the following: 1.WINNING CHEQUE VALUED THE SUM OF £ 500,000.00 2.WINNING CERTIFICATE FROM THE YAHOO/MSN & MICROSOFT LOTTERY BOARD UNITED KINGDOM. 3.CLEAR SOURCE OF FUNDS CERTIFICATES(C.S.F.C.) 4.ANTI-TERRORISM CERTIFICATES(A.T.C) 5.CERTIFICATES OF ORIGIN OF FUNDS(C.O.F.) 6.LETTER OF AFFIDAVITS FROM THE BRITISH HIGH COURT OF JUSTICE, STATING THAT THE WINNING WAS RECEIVED LEGALLY FROM THE UNIVERSAL DONATION PROGRAM, AND DULLY SIGNED BY THE Mr.James Anderson Coordinator,YAHOO/MSN & MICROSOFT LOTTERY BOARD UNITED KINGDOM. 7.CERTIFICATE OF GUARANTEE. Please, contact our delivery department with the contact information below for futher instructions on how to send the consignment to your location. Note that the YAHOO/MSN & MICROSOFT LOTTERY BOARD UNITED KINGDOM DEPARTMENT are affilated to a Diplomatic Courier Company here in the united kingdom called SALAMA DIPLOMATIC COURIER COMPANY, which is assigned for the delivery of your parcel/consignment. This is to inform you that the SALAMA DIPLOMATIC COURIER COMPANY agent is in possession of the delivery of your Parcel to your address, your details has been forwarded to the company and note, that the courier company do not deliver to P.O. Box address or street corners but to your residence or valid address. Note that your details has been verify and delivery will commence upon your contact with our Company's Diplomat who is coming to your country to delivere your parcel to you as we have forwarded all your information to them for immediate delivery of your winning funds which are already with the courier company.Please, you are required to contact the diplomatic courier company via the below information: COMPANY'S DIPLOMAT CONTACT INFORMATION: Diplomat name: Mr Roland Williams Email:salamadiplomaticcompany@yahoo.com Tel:+44-871-315-0779. You are required to send across the below information to him via email to enable proceed with delivery and also call to confirm when he will be leaving the country: 1.Full Name's : 2.Tel: 3.Your Recent Home address: 4.Country/State: 5.Your parcel Number: You are required to contact him regarding the delivery of your Parcel, tell him that Mr. James Anderson ask you to contact him for immediate delivery and as soon as he get your email he will proceed with the delivery of your Parcel. Regards, Mr. James Anderson Coordinator, YAHOO/MSN & MICROSOFT LOTTERY BOARD UNITED KINGDOM.

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