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The Two-Headed Beast of Successful Habit Change
by guest
2 Feb 2012 at 9:20am
Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Tyler Tervooren of Advanced Riskology. I used to have a lot of bad habits. I still do, but I used to have a lot more. Here?s just a small sampling: I woke up late and went to bed early. I procrastinated on my most important work. I [...]
Create the Habit of Meditation, & the Zen Habits Premium Membership
by Leo
31 Jan 2012 at 3:03pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. It’s something I should have created a long time ago: the Zen Habits Premium Membership, and a mini-course that’s included with it called Create the Habit of Meditation. The membership is a monthly subscription of $19.99, but really it’s a commitment to changing your life, and the tools needed to [...]
Creating Silence from Chaos
by Leo
27 Jan 2012 at 3:20pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. We are often afraid of silence, because its emptiness feels idle, boring, unproductive, and scary. And so we fill our lives with chaos, noise, clutter. But silence can be lovely, and therapeutic, and powerful. It can be the remedy for our stress and the habits that crush us. If we [...]
The Habits That Crush Us
by Leo
23 Jan 2012 at 11:26am
‘Don’t panic.’ ~Douglas Adams Post written by Leo Babauta. Why is it that we cannot break the bad habits that stand in our way, crushing our desires to live a healthy life, be fit, simplify, be happier? How is it that our best intentions are nearly always beaten? We want to be focused and productive, [...]
Learning to Sit Alone, in a Quiet Empty Room
by Leo
17 Jan 2012 at 1:49pm
‘All men’s miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. Think about some of the problems of our daily lives, and how many of them would be eased if we could learn to sit alone, in a quiet empty room, with contentment. If [...]
Life as a Conscious Practice
by Leo
13 Jan 2012 at 9:15am
‘Everything is practice.’ ~Pele Post written by Leo Babauta. When we learn a martial art, or ballet, or gymnastics, or soccer ? we consciously practice movements in a deliberate way, repeatedly. By conscious, repeated practice, we become good at those movements. Our entire lives are like this, but we’re often less conscious of the practice. [...]
Your Top 10 Clutter Questions, Answered
by Leo
11 Jan 2012 at 11:33am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Decluttering is a skill that you learn with practice, just like any skill. And just like other skills, there are many little questions and problems you need answered and solved as you get started. Those of you taking the Clutterfat Challenge this month are facing these problems, and I’m here [...]
Clearing Your Life for a New Year
by Leo
9 Jan 2012 at 12:55pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. Every January, people rush out and get a gym membership, set a list of goals or resolutions, and get ready to take on a new year of frenetic activity. Unfortunately, we don’t often clear space to make room for all this new stuff. The beginning of the year is a [...]
How to Tackle Your Clutter
by Leo
6 Jan 2012 at 12:19pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. So you’ve been putting off tackling your clutter for months, maybe even years. Papers pile up on a counter, shelves are crammed full of books and magazines and other things, closets are stuffed to the point of spillage, clothes pile up on the floor or furniture, boxes and furniture and [...]
How to Have the Best Year of Your Life (without Setting a Single Goal)
by guest
5 Jan 2012 at 9:15am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Jeff Goins of Goins, Writer. This new year, do something different: stop setting goals. If the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results, then making resolutions for another year is a sure-fire way to drive yourself crazy. I did [...]


Intimacy

Here is your Friday STORY on: HAPPINESS: No matter what you have, or DON'T HAVE, happiness comes from within you. If happiness could be bought you wouldn't see so many people searching for it in all sorts of things (drugs, alcohol, physical pleasure, etc.). However, lacking happiness also cuts across all lines. The poorest of the poor and the richest of the rich can be unhappy. The choice to be happy comes from inside you and is not dependent on who you are, what you do, where you live and how much money you have. Choose to be happy and you will be. A tale of kingdoms past is where our story takes us today, but the message is clear... THE KING WHO HAD EVERYTHING 'He had a large kingdom, much wealth, a beautiful queen, and beautiful children. He was well loved by his subjects, and his kingdom was not at war with any neighbouring kingdoms. But one day the king became sad and disconsolate. At first the jester was called in to cheer the king, but he was of no use. Then the minstrels were brought in, also to no avail. The king's advisors brought in entertainer after entertainer, but none could cheer the king. A few days later, the king fell ill and took to his bed. The best doctors were called, but none of the remedies they prescribed were of any help. At long last they brought in the court wizard. He performed a series of incantations, and then declared, "The king must wear the shirt of a truly happy man. Only that will cure him." Messengers and couriers were sent out in haste to find a truly happy man. They scoured the kingdom for a happy man. One by one they began to return with the news that they could not find such a man. Then, when all seemed lost, the last courier came running through the palace. While he had not found a happy man, he had heard tales of just such a man that lived deep in the king's forest on a small farm. Though he was weak, the king rose from bed, dressed, and rode with an entourage out into the forest. He arrived at the farmhouse late that night. Though it was not messy, it was apparent that the people who lived here were very poor. Nonetheless, the king knocked on the door and told the woman that answered that he had come to see her husband. She replied that he was fast asleep, but that she would wake him. After several minutes, a man came to the door wrapped in a blanket. The king explained his situation and told the man that he needed his shirt. At this the man began to laugh. The king grew angry, but this only caused the man to laugh more. Finally, the king demanded to know what was so funny. At this the man removed the blanket he had wrapped around him to show that he was so poor that he had no shirt.' (Unknown Author). QUOTE: 'The very purpose of our life is happiness: in order to achieve happier days, happier weeks, happier years, happier family, happier human community... we should pay more attention to inner development.' (His Holiness the Dalai Lama).


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How come the moment our lips touch, i lose my sex drive?
My friend I was attracted to kissed me. Well, he french kissed me when we were laying down together. I wanted him to kiss me so badly, and laying with him turned me on so so badly, but when he kissed me i grimaced and thought "gross". He isnt a bad kisser, it just feels like tongue on tongue and nothing special. I just kiss him because i love the intimacy of it. But im not horny when I kiss him if that makes sense, because it kills my sex drive. Why is this? I mean, i kissed him back really passionately and everything. But i didnt kiss him that way because I wanted to have sex. I did it because I really like him as a person. its not like we just kissed once. we have had like 2 dozend hour long make out sessions. I still havent said anything. But i really am attracted to him. But I also feel like I just want to cuddle with him and be in his arms, instead of being all dirty and having sex.... he is NOT pressuring me or sex. he is not trying for it, nor is he asking for it. He seems perfectly content with just cuddling and kissing.

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How come the moment our lips touch, I lose my sex drive?
My friend I was attracted to kissed me. Well, he french kissed me when we were laying down together. I wanted him to kiss me so badly, and laying with him turned me on so so badly, but when he kissed me i grimaced and thought "gross". He isnt a bad kisser, it just feels like tongue on tongue and nothing special. I just kiss him because i love the intimacy of it. But im not horny when I kiss him if that makes sense, because it kills my sex drive. Why is this? I mean, i kissed him back really passionately and everything. But i didnt kiss him that way because I wanted to have sex. I did it because I really like him as a person. its not like we just kissed once. we have had like 2 dozend hour long make out sessions. I still havent said anything. But i really am attracted to him. But I also feel like I just want to cuddle with him and be in his arms, instead of being all dirty and having sex.... he is NOT pressuring me or sex. he is not trying for it, nor is he asking for it. He seems perfectly content with just cuddling and kissing. Its weird because I have SUCH a strong urge to kiss him, but when our lips touch that feeling instantly goes away Im a college freshman, so im not too young

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Password sharing comes with less romantic risky realities, warn experts - New...

4 Feb 2012 at 9:52pm  Passwords are being compared to sex in terms of intimacy and vulnerability, but many experts advise against teens from sharing their access codes, the Daily Mail reported. According to the New York Times, the trend for teens to share their ...

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New dad wants some of wife's attention - Kennebec Journal

4 Feb 2012 at 9:45pm  Since they were born, our sex life has become nonexistent. We have talked about it, but it never seems to get any better (which would be us having any type of intimacy). She is not breastfeeding the boys, but she is pumping milk four to five ...

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Secrets of Irish under the covers is laid bare - Independent

4 Feb 2012 at 9:38pm  The RTE TV documentary In Bed with the Irish uncovers the nation's attitudes to love, intimacy, snoring and duvet theft through the honest opinions of a range of Irish couples. The subjects include a couple in their 70s, another in their 40s and a model ...

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Social media photography project on view at the Portland Museum of Art - Art ...

4 Feb 2012 at 9:16pm  Maine photographer Tanja Alexia Hollander captures the intimacy of friendship by stepping away from the computer and into the private homes of her more than 600 Facebook friends. This is Hollander?s first solo exhibition at the Museum. Tanja Alexia ...

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George Clooney Opens Up His L.A. House for Public Viewers - AceShowbiz

2 Feb 2012 at 9:37am  There's an intimacy when someone allows you into their home,' producer of 'Person to Person' said about the revived show that features Clooney among others. Notoriously private George Clooney allowed CBS News' cameras to enter his Los Angeles house.

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Struggling With Sex When You're Overweight - KCRA.com

2 Feb 2012 at 5:55am  It's an uncommon look at intimacy between plus-sized partners, played mainly for laughs. But with obesity rates skyrocketing in this country, sex when one or both partners is heavy is becoming a very real issue. Nearly 34% of American adults are obese ...

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A (brief) case for contraception - Notre Dame & Saint Mary Observer

1 Feb 2012 at 4:55pm  Firstly, the claim that sex with contraception somehow makes the intimacy less genuine, less fulfilling and less meaningful, is debatable. Sex with contraception can allow the partners to have a more intimate and meaningful experience.

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Will Google+ Trump Facebook with Digital Intimacy? - Forbes

29 Jan 2012 at 4:59pm  If Dunbar?s number of 150 represents a theoretical limit to the amount of stable social relationships one person can manage, then who are these other 850 friends attached to my Facebook account? It is pretty clear that the initial appeal to ...

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