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Imagine
by guest
22 May 2012 at 9:44am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Chris Guillebeau of ChrisGuillebeau.com. Imagine a life where all your time is spent on the things you want to do. Imagine giving your greatest attention to a project you create yourself, instead of working as a cog in a machine that exists to make other people rich. [...]
The Little Guide to Contentedness
by Leo
18 May 2012 at 1:31pm
‘He who is contented is rich.’ ~Lao Tzu Post written by Leo Babauta. There has been little in my life that has made as much an impact as learning to be content — with my life, where I am, what I’m doing, what I have, who I’m with, who I am. This little trick changes [...]
The 9-5 Guide to Staying Active
by guest
15 May 2012 at 9:00am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Matt Madeiro of Make Every Day Count. Let?s see if this rings any bells. When the clock hits 8, I sit. I plop back in my rolling chair, crack open the laptop on my desk, and spend the next nine hours with my butt glued firmly to [...]
Three Little Habits to Find Focus
by Leo
10 May 2012 at 11:42am
‘Distraction is the only thing that consoles us for miseries and yet it is itself the greatest of our miseries.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. I’ll be the first to admit that I fall victim to the trap of the Internet — a wonderful empowering tool that can fill your day with distractions, [...]
How to Live Well
by Leo
7 May 2012 at 1:59pm
‘Begin at once to live, and count each separate day as a separate life.’ ~Seneca Post written by Leo Babauta. I’m not a rich man, nor do I fly around the world and drink champagne with famous people in exotic locales, nor do I own a sports car or SUV or a yacht. And yet, [...]
What I?ve Learned About Learning
by Leo
3 May 2012 at 9:07am
‘We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself.’ ~Lloyd Alexander Post written by Leo Babauta. I am a teacher and an avid learner, and I’m passionate about both. I’m a teacher because I help Eva homeschool our kids — OK, [...]
The 39th Lesson
by Leo
30 Apr 2012 at 9:05am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Today (April 30) is my 39th Un-un-birthday, and as usual, the day is a good day to pause and reflect. Last year I wrote 38 Life Lessons I?ve Learned in 38 Years, and people seemed to find some use in it. This year, I thought I’d share an additional lesson [...]
How to Fail at Habits
by Leo
24 Apr 2012 at 11:28am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Before I learned how to change habits, I was stuck. I kept trying to change various habits — running, eating healthier, waking earlier, getting out of debt, ending procrastination — and I kept failing. I got very good at failing, in fact. Looking back on those days, given the power [...]
Webinar: How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life
by Leo
23 Apr 2012 at 8:00am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Yesterday I conducted a free webinar, “How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life“, and the video is below. The webinar was held Mon. April 23), and in it I talked about my struggle with bad habits, why bad habits are so powerful, and how I [...]
Crazy Talk: The Do-What-You-Love Guide
by Leo
19 Apr 2012 at 11:36am
‘Everything you can imagine is real.’ ~Pablo Picasso Post written by Leo Babauta. When I wrote the first words of this blog, more than five years ago, I had no idea those few keystrokes would change my life. I thought I was doing nothing more than reflecting on the changes that had been happening in [...]

 

 

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Here is your Sunday STORY on: THE LOVE OF WISDOM: We try with the greatest intentions to prevent sadness from getting a grip on our life, but sadly the force is just too big at times. Few realise the intensity of an emotion and how it drives our very soul. How often within the same day have you had a different view on the same subject? Within the last week I have had an incident that brought on a sadness I wasn't aware of specifically. I was selling a property and a few modifications had occurred, but sadly at the time the appropriate planning permission wasn't sought. Of course this decision to avoid planning permission has now come back to haunt the sale as building regulations have to be met. The property is extremely appealing, bar this one technical hitch. Of course to bring this property up to specification more expense and time needs to be allocated. Within the 24 hours following the realisation of this much needed work, I had become sad. Not all as a consequence of the expense and work, but with my original decision to forgo the planning consent to meet an occupational deadline. I was frustrated to the point of being grumpy and sour faced. Everyone was asking if I was okay, which incidentally as you may have experienced yourself is a further contributory frustration. I knew however that beyond those first 24 hours my sanity would return as I got to grips with what was required. It is noticeable therefore that under circumstances that makes one frustrated, is a cloud of poor decision making. Avoid making them during this gloomy period. Today's story is about a decision that was made under poor circumstances. But rather than be made to listen to serious facts a little example was presented that allowed an awakening. Sometimes it is a matter of time until the cloud of emotion is removed, another occasion may need a voice of authority. In this story's case it was the unspoken word that was the authority. UNSPOKEN SERMON A member of a certain church, who previously had been attending services regularly, suddenly stopped coming to church. After a few weeks, the Pastor decided to visit. The Pastor found the man at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire. Guessing the reason for his Pastor's visit, the man welcomed him, led him to a comfortable chair near the fireplace and waited. The pastor made himself at home but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated the dance of the flames around the burning logs. After some minutes, the Pastor took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning ember and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone. Then he sat back in his chair, still silent. The host watched all this in quiet contemplation. As the one lone ember's flame flickered and diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and lifeless. The Pastor glanced at his watch and realized it was time to leave; he slowly stood up, picked up the cold, dead ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately it began to glow, once more with the light and warmth of the burning coals around it. As the Pastor reached the door to leave, his host said with a tear running down his cheek, "Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the fiery sermon, I shall be back in church next Sunday." We live in a world today which tries to say too much with too little. Consequently, few listen. Sometimes the best sermons are the ones left unspoken. Sometimes the best conversation between two people is when nothing is said at all. (Unknown Author) QUOTE: "You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.' (Plato) [[ct]]: I Want Being Happy

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Peter Schmuck: Effect of Brian Roberts' return on Orioles remains to be seen ...

22 May 2012 at 6:57pm 

Peter Schmuck: Effect of Brian Roberts' return on Orioles remains to be seen
Baltimore Sun
That's happy news ? considering that he has spent a grueling and frustrating year recovering from the compound effects of a pair of concussions ? but the announcement just before game time Tuesday night only amplified all the questions that remain ...

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Kelly Clarkson's Boyfriend Brandon Blackstock Keeps Her Happy - But Ruins Her...

22 May 2012 at 6:50pm  Kelly Clarkson says her boyfriend is ''ruining her creativity''. The 'Stronger' singer - who is famed for writing songs about heartbreak - has been dating talent manager Brandon Blackstock since late last year and admits being happy is changing ...

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Clayton Christensen and How Will You Measure Your Life? - Huffington Post (blog)

22 May 2012 at 5:02pm 

Clayton Christensen and How Will You Measure Your Life?
Huffington Post (blog)
(with James Allworth and Karen Dillon), which attempts to tell readers how to be happy and satisfied with their lives. The book apparently came from a graduation speech at HBS in 2010 (there are similarities to Steve Jobs' graduation exhortation), ...

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The Benefits of Being Happy - Belief.Net

22 May 2012 at 4:34pm  People tend to look for ways to feel happy, but they?re often fleeting. Often we?re so busy trying find happiness we don?t recognize it when you have it. Happiness isn?t something you build by buying stuff or adding more bells and ...

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They've moved on, but Smith is happy that Carney's moving up - Wyndham Weekly

22 May 2012 at 4:25pm 

Sydney Morning Herald

They've moved on, but Smith is happy that Carney's moving up
Wyndham Weekly
''I was going to say I'd be happy to have a beer with him ? but I'm not sure that's the right expression.'' Smith does not mean to be crass in talking of a reunion with Carney over a schooner. It is merely a minor slip-up with words and he chuckles ...
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Husband, wife circus act happy to be with Ringling Bros. - Midland Reporter-T...

22 May 2012 at 4:20pm 

Husband, wife circus act happy to be with Ringling Bros.
Midland Reporter-Telegram
We are very happy to be here." This marks their second tour with Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus. "What I most like is traveling around the country or around the world," Tuells said. "We always are meeting different people, different cultures ...

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Romulo Valles, 1st Dabawenyo Arcbhishop of Davao: ?How happy I am to be home?...

22 May 2012 at 4:19pm  DAVAO CITY (MindaNews/22 May) ? Romulo Geolina Valles, the first Dabawenyo Archbishop of the Archdiocese of Davao is ?happy to be home,? back to the region where he studied to be a priest and was ordained a priest, this time, to be both ...

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Happy Hour for Obama Hosts Phone Banking Event June 7th in Oakland - Examiner

22 May 2012 at 3:51pm  If you are thinking about attending a happy hour and would also like to help President Barack Obama get re-elected this year why not join the Obama team for a phone banking, happy hour, and a bar crawl.  What better way to support and make a ...

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Size Matters: How To Network Without Getting Wasted - Above the Law

22 May 2012 at 3:38pm 

Above the Law

Size Matters: How To Network Without Getting Wasted
Above the Law
So, I went to ?networking for lawyers,? ?networking for young professionals,? ?young professionals happy hour,? ?lawyers happy hour,? ?business professionals happy hour,? etc. I do not really like young professionals, business professionals or most ...



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McGeady happy to stay in Russia - Football365.com

22 May 2012 at 3:36pm  The 26-year-old Republic of Ireland international joined up with his Euro 2012-bound team-mates on Sunday having been voted as one of the best 33 players in Russia following his second season at Spartak Moscow. McGeady has two years of his existing ...

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What is wrong with me wanting to touch and hold my wife's breast? (Answers: 7) (Comments: 0)
I know this has to be me, I was married to my last wife for 27 years,and its not just the breast. One day I came home and she was standing in the kitchen,and I came up behide her and put my arms around her for a hug,hands on tummy not breast.She pushed me away saying she was tired on me treating her like a whore,very hurt and didn't understand. In my thinking and I said this to,I would think a woman would love a husband that couldn't keep his hand off of her. To go back just a little, I did fine out after the divorce she had been seeing another man for three year before we split up. I was alone for five year and met the most wonderful lady and fell in love with her. I was very honest with her about being a hands on person and she loved it,she said. Anyway after a few years we married and was great,untill the last few months. Now the lady of my dreams,that said she love me to hold her breast as we went to sleep,will push my hands away saying she can't sleep with me holding her that way. I really need the closeness and if holding her bothered her she never told me this before, she told me before we married it was her dream to have a husband that love to hold her this way. She had a bad marriage before me she said.I love this lady so much,that I will stop touching her if thats what it takes, but I want be happy to live this way,and not very happy now. This started about a year after we got married. I am 51 years old and have only been with two women in my life and was married to the both of them. Please help me understand what I'm doing wrong so I can fix it.Thank you.

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what is true love?how to solve the problems between couples? (Answers: 4) (Comments: 0)
myself and my lover facing serious problem..its obviously because of me..i love her so much and she is crazy about me.its been about 5 and half years.i cant let her go in my life..but i find fault with her..she is the greatest girl ever in my life..give an advice how to overcome problems.i want be happy like we were in first year of our love..

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Should my pregnant goats be separated? (Answers: 4) (Comments: 0)
I have a few fainting goats(two does, a buck, young buck). My girls are getting close to kidding and I am unsure if I should separate them from the boys. I bought them all together and they have never been apart. The buck is the sire of the kids and the other is an orphan from a bud's herd. They are stalled together everynight and seem to get along very well. Just let me know if you have any suggestions. All I want is happy mom's and healthy kids! Thanks Olivia

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