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The Pause Upon Which All Else Relies
by Leo
9 Feb 2012 at 8:56am
Post written by Leo Babauta. There is one little habit I’ve learned that has changed everything else in my life. The pause. When we fail, it’s because we act on urges without thinking, without realizing it. We have the urge to eat junk, and we do it. We have the urge to check email instead [...]
The Thousand Cuts Fitness Program
by Leo
6 Feb 2012 at 10:43am
Post written by Leo Babauta. I’ve trained for marathons, triathlons, 10Ks, a 13.5-hour challenge, Ubanathlons, and more. But my favorite fitness program isn’t one where you train for a major event. It’s where you get fit by a thousand little actions. When the actions are tiny, they are easy. You have no excuse. You can [...]
The Two-Headed Beast of Successful Habit Change
by guest
2 Feb 2012 at 9:20am
Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Tyler Tervooren of Advanced Riskology. I used to have a lot of bad habits. I still do, but I used to have a lot more. Here?s just a small sampling: I woke up late and went to bed early. I procrastinated on my most important work. I [...]
Create the Habit of Meditation, & the Zen Habits Premium Membership
by Leo
31 Jan 2012 at 3:03pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. It’s something I should have created a long time ago: the Zen Habits Premium Membership, and a mini-course that’s included with it called Create the Habit of Meditation. The membership is a monthly subscription of $19.99, but really it’s a commitment to changing your life, and the tools needed to [...]
Creating Silence from Chaos
by Leo
27 Jan 2012 at 3:20pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. We are often afraid of silence, because its emptiness feels idle, boring, unproductive, and scary. And so we fill our lives with chaos, noise, clutter. But silence can be lovely, and therapeutic, and powerful. It can be the remedy for our stress and the habits that crush us. If we [...]
The Habits That Crush Us
by Leo
23 Jan 2012 at 11:26am
‘Don’t panic.’ ~Douglas Adams Post written by Leo Babauta. Why is it that we cannot break the bad habits that stand in our way, crushing our desires to live a healthy life, be fit, simplify, be happier? How is it that our best intentions are nearly always beaten? We want to be focused and productive, [...]
Learning to Sit Alone, in a Quiet Empty Room
by Leo
17 Jan 2012 at 1:49pm
‘All men’s miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. Think about some of the problems of our daily lives, and how many of them would be eased if we could learn to sit alone, in a quiet empty room, with contentment. If [...]
Life as a Conscious Practice
by Leo
13 Jan 2012 at 9:15am
‘Everything is practice.’ ~Pele Post written by Leo Babauta. When we learn a martial art, or ballet, or gymnastics, or soccer ? we consciously practice movements in a deliberate way, repeatedly. By conscious, repeated practice, we become good at those movements. Our entire lives are like this, but we’re often less conscious of the practice. [...]
Your Top 10 Clutter Questions, Answered
by Leo
11 Jan 2012 at 11:33am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Decluttering is a skill that you learn with practice, just like any skill. And just like other skills, there are many little questions and problems you need answered and solved as you get started. Those of you taking the Clutterfat Challenge this month are facing these problems, and I’m here [...]
Clearing Your Life for a New Year
by Leo
9 Jan 2012 at 12:55pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. Every January, people rush out and get a gym membership, set a list of goals or resolutions, and get ready to take on a new year of frenetic activity. Unfortunately, we don’t often clear space to make room for all this new stuff. The beginning of the year is a [...]


How To Be Happy Alone

Here is your Tuesday STORY on: SELF DEVELOPMENT: Sometimes... risks can be taken inch by inch. There are too many sayings that encourage us to take risks and establish that without taking risks we never improve. Of course whilst this philosophy is true, it can be easily misinterpreted! Proof of this will be surely within your own life. These risks can be categorised as thus: An irresponsible risk A Calculated risk We would assume that an irresponsible risk would fail and a calculated risk would be successful. If this was true, which type of risk are you going to use next time? A calculated risk is a plan split into several or even hundreds of movements. Then should failure loom after ten movements the plan can be shelved. However it seems that a greater chance of success will come from meticulous planning. In fact as the start of today's daily wisdom said, 'Inch by inch!' Today's story illustrates that in taking a calculated risk a weakness can become a strength. WEAKNESS OR STRENGTH? A happy 10-year-old boy was involved in an accident, sadly his arm was severely damaged and sadly had to be amputated. That is where the bad news finishes. This young boy still was the same young boy, but he had lost his left arm. His happy disposition was that he still wanted to be involved with everything. So after his request, his parents enrolled him into a 'judo' class. What an enormous task confronted him, with only one arm he was attempting to compete amongst his friends at the same level. The young boy approached the teacher and said he wanted to learn as much as possible about this sport. The judo teacher was apprehensive, but studied carefully the disability and came up with a solution. The judo teacher instructed the young boy to learn one important move. After a few weeks the boy was confused, he asked, 'Why do I only learn one move?' the judo teacher said, 'This is the only move you need to know!' (Inch by inch the boy would practice this move, until his skill was masterful). A few months later the judo school entered the annual national competition. To everyone's surprise the young boy with only one arm progressed through all the stages to the final. His opponent was a boy both larger and physically stronger. The odds were against the young boy with one arm. He tussled bravely and the audience were in fear for the young boy's safety. As the final progressed, it was clear that the young boy was trying to make the same move to win the tournament. But he fought bravely and frustrated the opponent. Suddenly his larger opponent became so disorientated he lost concentration. The young boy tried his move once more and successfully won the tournament for his judo school. The young boy amongst many others was confused but delighted about his win. He approached his judo teacher after the win and asked why he had been so successful. His teacher replied, 'There is only one defence to the move I taught you, if and when you secure the correct grip in your attack, the only defence is to grasp your left arm...' (Unknown Author). QUOTE: "When you take risks there is a possibility of failing, and yet by taking no risks, failure is certain.' (Eva, Author and Philosopher). 'And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.' (Erica Jong).


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Does anybody have any tips for learning how to be happy alone after ending a long term relationship?
In December I ended a relationship that I had been in for 4 years. It was the right decision and I don't want him back but I'm haveing trouble being by myself. I find myself restless alot and constanly wanting to be on the go. I really need to learn to be ok sitting at home alone. Any advice would be great!

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depressed about being single....how to be happy alone?
I'm 23 and never had a girlfriend or a girl really interested in me more than just friends. I'm not very good looking (short, braces, hairy back, freckles all over) and this seems to be putting me behind the eight ball. I've also had my 7 closest mates go overseas for 2+ years and don't have many friends left here. Because of the braces (check ups and adjustments every few weeks) I can't go overseas and have missed the opportunity. Also I'm so embarrassed about having them that I try at every opportunity to hide the braces. I have done a bit by getting a house and degree, but don't see it as any sort of achievement. whenever i see a guy and girl together i feel depressed as i just cant ever see myself being in the same position. all my mates get girls, yet I'm always overlooked which i guess is because i am uglier than them. Also there are some girls which I have met and liked (one in particular who is simply my dream girl) but they have boyfriends. I've tried learning new things (taught myself guitar) and exercise regularly, but still I don't feel any better. Since my friends left I've been really down, and it seems to be getting worse by the week. How can I revert this way of thinking and be happy?

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Cheap Valentine's Day Plans That Don't Skimp on Romance - Miami New Times Blogs

10 Feb 2012 at 10:11am  Anyway, for you lucky few with caring partners out there, here are a few ways to have a happy Valentine's Day without breaking the bank. But don't tell us about it, because remember, the rest of us are sad and alone and no we are not crying just go away.

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Danish teen seeks Kiwi romance - for her mum - New Zealand Herald

10 Feb 2012 at 9:35am  Christine Brinch, 15, said her 41-year-old mother, Anja, had been alone for a "very long time" and she wanted to see her happy. "I know she wants a man and I want to make her happy," she said. "I know she really wants a New Zealand man because she really ...

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SOAPBOX: Being prepared now a necessity of life - Stuff

10 Feb 2012 at 8:52am  We've all heard the messages about preparing for three days alone. But, even as the quakes continue in Canterbury ... I worry that one of the reasons for apathy is that we have become all too happy to transfer responsibility for everything to "the ...

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FA meeting to consider successor - ESPN

10 Feb 2012 at 7:33am  "It is hard enough managing a league club, let alone your country -- two very difficult jobs ... according to Italian news agency ANSA. "I was very happy there, but there are times when you just decide to leave."

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I can't live a lie anymore, crackers, I was only using you to get to the chee...

10 Feb 2012 at 2:11am  Killer whales look happy even when they're being mean ... Hey, Trivial Pursuit, way to pick a name that says "This game is pointless." I never felt so alone in life as I did that one night I called the Chinese restaurant and no one answered.

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Susan Lee: Liverpool should turn out in force to greet the Duchess of Cambrid...

10 Feb 2012 at 1:00am  He is a hard author to get to grips with as an adult, let alone when you?re 12. Parents should just be happy if their kids are reading at all ? whether it?s the latest Jacqueline Wilson or a footy mag. I reckon schools should issue e-readers to every pupil.

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Baby Katarjahzna Kyeshia Brown ?KK? - Valdosta Daily Times

9 Feb 2012 at 9:46pm  To my beloved brothers and sister, Marquavius Brown, Bryson Brown and  Zayriah Smith, don?t tie yourself to me with tears, be happy for the months we had together. To my grandparents, Jeffery Bernard Daniels and Shirleen Daniels; if love alone could ...

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Kelly Clarkson: I'm not gay' - Winnipeg Free Press

9 Feb 2012 at 9:11pm  "When I tell people I'm happy being single, they don't believe me. They say: 'You have to be miserable being alone'." The former 'American Idol' winner previously admitted she has never been in love, but believes all that will change when she meets the right man.

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New Brunswick Happy Hour - for Young Professionals - New Jersey Monthly

8 Feb 2012 at 5:01pm  What to expect: our happy hours are very casual ... Newbies are at every event so if this is your first, you won't be alone. Drink Specials: They end at 7 PM so arrive on time. How to find the group: Meet us at the bar of course.

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Overcoming pride to prevent suicide - AF.mil

7 Feb 2012 at 8:41am  Nothing worked until I was ready to swallow my pride and admit that I could not go it alone. Once I was willing to accept help from everyone around me, I learned how to be truly happy. In a perfect world, nobody will ever need to read this article.

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