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The Two-Headed Beast of Successful Habit Change
by guest
2 Feb 2012 at 9:20am
Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Tyler Tervooren of Advanced Riskology. I used to have a lot of bad habits. I still do, but I used to have a lot more. Here?s just a small sampling: I woke up late and went to bed early. I procrastinated on my most important work. I [...]
Create the Habit of Meditation, & the Zen Habits Premium Membership
by Leo
31 Jan 2012 at 3:03pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. It’s something I should have created a long time ago: the Zen Habits Premium Membership, and a mini-course that’s included with it called Create the Habit of Meditation. The membership is a monthly subscription of $19.99, but really it’s a commitment to changing your life, and the tools needed to [...]
Creating Silence from Chaos
by Leo
27 Jan 2012 at 3:20pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. We are often afraid of silence, because its emptiness feels idle, boring, unproductive, and scary. And so we fill our lives with chaos, noise, clutter. But silence can be lovely, and therapeutic, and powerful. It can be the remedy for our stress and the habits that crush us. If we [...]
The Habits That Crush Us
by Leo
23 Jan 2012 at 11:26am
‘Don’t panic.’ ~Douglas Adams Post written by Leo Babauta. Why is it that we cannot break the bad habits that stand in our way, crushing our desires to live a healthy life, be fit, simplify, be happier? How is it that our best intentions are nearly always beaten? We want to be focused and productive, [...]
Learning to Sit Alone, in a Quiet Empty Room
by Leo
17 Jan 2012 at 1:49pm
‘All men’s miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. Think about some of the problems of our daily lives, and how many of them would be eased if we could learn to sit alone, in a quiet empty room, with contentment. If [...]
Life as a Conscious Practice
by Leo
13 Jan 2012 at 9:15am
‘Everything is practice.’ ~Pele Post written by Leo Babauta. When we learn a martial art, or ballet, or gymnastics, or soccer ? we consciously practice movements in a deliberate way, repeatedly. By conscious, repeated practice, we become good at those movements. Our entire lives are like this, but we’re often less conscious of the practice. [...]
Your Top 10 Clutter Questions, Answered
by Leo
11 Jan 2012 at 11:33am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Decluttering is a skill that you learn with practice, just like any skill. And just like other skills, there are many little questions and problems you need answered and solved as you get started. Those of you taking the Clutterfat Challenge this month are facing these problems, and I’m here [...]
Clearing Your Life for a New Year
by Leo
9 Jan 2012 at 12:55pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. Every January, people rush out and get a gym membership, set a list of goals or resolutions, and get ready to take on a new year of frenetic activity. Unfortunately, we don’t often clear space to make room for all this new stuff. The beginning of the year is a [...]
How to Tackle Your Clutter
by Leo
6 Jan 2012 at 12:19pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. So you’ve been putting off tackling your clutter for months, maybe even years. Papers pile up on a counter, shelves are crammed full of books and magazines and other things, closets are stuffed to the point of spillage, clothes pile up on the floor or furniture, boxes and furniture and [...]
How to Have the Best Year of Your Life (without Setting a Single Goal)
by guest
5 Jan 2012 at 9:15am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Jeff Goins of Goins, Writer. This new year, do something different: stop setting goals. If the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results, then making resolutions for another year is a sure-fire way to drive yourself crazy. I did [...]


Happy

Here is your Friday STORY on: HAPPINESS: Happiness is having what you really want, or is it? Or is it allowing OTHERS to have what they really want? To WANT happiness yourself is fine, but it is how you achieve it or plan it that really counts. It is not the destination that is important but the journey. If you were to plan to travel to your promised land to find happiness, you are instantly limiting yourself to no further happiness until you arrive. It is as EQUALLY important to allow happiness to arise upon the journey. Notice the word ALLOW and how integral that word is to those first few paragraphs. Don't restrict or confine; allow! Today's story is an amusing look, but nonetheless loaded with ALLOWING, which brings happiness. Please enjoy... WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighbouring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him, but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So the monarch offered him freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer; if, after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death. The question: What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and, to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end. He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everybody: the princess, the prostitutes, the priests, the wise men and the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer. Many people advised him to consult the old witch--only she would know the answer. The price would be high; the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged. The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no alternative but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer his question, but he'd have to accept her price first: The old witch wanted to marry Gawain, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend! Young Arthur was horrified: She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises... etc. He had never encountered such a repugnant creature. He refused to force his friend to marry her and have to endure such a burden. Gawain, upon learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He told him that nothing was too big a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table. Hence, their wedding was proclaimed, and the witch answered Arthur's question thus: What a woman really wants is to be in charge of her own life. Everyone instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared. And so it was. The neighbouring monarch granted Arthur total freedom. What a wedding Gawain and the witch had! Arthur was torn between relief and anguish. Gawain was proper as always, gentle and courteous. The old witch put her worst manners on display, and generally made everyone very uncomfortable. The honeymoon hour approached. Gawain, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But what a sight awaited him! The most beautiful woman he'd ever seen lay before him! The astounded Gawain asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she'd appeared as a witch, she would henceforth be her horrible, deformed self half the time, and the other half, she would be her beautiful maiden self. Which would he want her to be during the day, and which during the night? What a cruel question! Gawain pondered his predicament. During the day she would be a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his home, an old witch? Or would he prefer having by day a hideous witch, but by night a beautiful woman with whom to enjoy many intimate moments? What would you do? What Gawain chose follows below, but don't read until you've made your own choice. * * * * * * * * Noble Gawain replied . . . . . that he would let her choose for herself. Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time, because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life. Is there a moral here? . . . . . . . . . Certainly: Treat your woman (guys) with total respect (and love) and like the queen she is or should be, and watch how beautiful she will be. Or, (on the other hand): If your woman doesn't get her own way, . . . . things are going to get ugly! : ) (Unknown Author) QUOTE: "I believe the greater handicap, the greater the triumph.' (John H. Johnson)


What make a resident happy and how to keep them? (Answers: 1) (Comments: 0)
I am about to start a new job as a property assistant manager in Seattle. I want to go in my frist week and lease a shit load of units. What good advertising method should I use to get more people to come in and lease up units? I also want to know what make a happy resident? What would you suggest on ways to keep your residents happy ?

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How to wish a happy birthday to a friend who passed away on Facebook? (Answers: 8) (Comments: 0)
How to wish a happy birthday to a friend who passed away? A friend of mine passed away. Today is his birthday. What is the sweetest way to wish him a happy birthday? Thanks!

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How do you be happy with your body while your losing massive weight? (Answers: 6) (Comments: 0)
I was 238 at the begining of this year, I am now 200. My goal is 145-160 so I am about a year away (hopefully less) I know everyone says be happy, but how can I be happy until I reach my goal? I feel like people have been kind but I know the dating world is hard for non stick figures.

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Turgeon not happy with Henson's final dunk - CBSSports.com

4 Feb 2012 at 5:06pm 

Turgeon not happy with Henson's final dunk
CBSSports.com
Coach Mark Turgeon on a postgame conversation with North Carolina coach Roy Williams after Tar Heels F John Henson dunked with 1.3 seconds left in UNC's 83-74 win: ?It was between me and coach. I didn't like it. Coach knows that.

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Happy Birthday: Facebook turns eight today - ZDNet (blog)

4 Feb 2012 at 3:35pm 

The Guardian

Happy Birthday: Facebook turns eight today
ZDNet (blog)
Happy Birthday Facebook! While Mark Zuckerberg is best known as the man who built Facebook, the company has three other co-founders, all college roommates and fellow students of Harvard University: Eduardo Saverin, Dustin Moskovitz, and Chris Hughes.
Happy birthday Facebook - here's how you looked eight years agothejournal.ie

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Six Nations - Lancaster happy with 'dirty' win - Yahoo! Eurosport UK

4 Feb 2012 at 2:23pm 

Yahoo! Eurosport UK

Six Nations - Lancaster happy with 'dirty' win
Yahoo! Eurosport UK
Stuart Lancaster has spent the first weeks of his temporary England tenure emphasising the importance of "culture" and "pride in the shirt" so he was delighted with a gutsy defensive display against a fired-up Scotland on Saturday.
Scotland v England - as it happened | Scott MurrayThe Guardian

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Big 10 coaches not happy with Urban Meyer's recruiting tactics - FanIQ (blog)

4 Feb 2012 at 9:16am 

FanIQ (blog)

Big 10 coaches not happy with Urban Meyer's recruiting tactics
FanIQ (blog)
by Pat more posts by author Urban Meyer has only been at Ohio State for a couple months, and he's already making waves. Other Big 10 coaches are speaking out against his recruiting tactics, after he poached a few top recruits from other schools within ...
Bielema Not Happy With Meyer's Recruiting TacticsBucky's 5th Quarter

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Happy Saturday! This Is My Week in Photos? - Celebuzz

4 Feb 2012 at 8:19am 

Happy Saturday! This Is My Week in Photos?
Celebuzz
Good morning Kim so happy to see you doing well. Spending time with my daughters this weekend. I saw the cover of Life & Style yesterday so bogus at least I hope it is. Keep your chin up and keep smiling you are doing wonderful things that you should ...

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Happy birthday, Beanpot: Famous college hockey tournament celebrates 60 years...

4 Feb 2012 at 5:23am 

Happy birthday, Beanpot: Famous college hockey tournament celebrates 60 years
Washington Post
BOSTON ? Conference tournaments are more than a month away. The NCAA tournament is a distant blip on the radar. That doesn't mean there's not some serious college hockey on tap. In fact, in Boston on Monday, it doesn't get any more serious.

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Rowan happy to be in the spotlight - Philadelphia Inquirer

4 Feb 2012 at 4:54am 

Rowan happy to be in the spotlight
Philadelphia Inquirer
"With all the people against this at Rutgers-Camden - but at Rowan it's like, we will be happy either way," said Karen Siefring, president of the faculty union. "Whatever happens, we'll still move forward." And there is some anxiety in faculty offices ...

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Oakland Herb Store, Happy High Herbs Store Berkeley Leads the Way with High ....

4 Feb 2012 at 3:10am 

Oakland Herb Store, Happy High Herbs Store Berkeley Leads the Way with High ...
San Francisco Chronicle (press release)
Berkeley's Happy High Herb Shop is a premiere destination for the increasingly popular and highly sought after herb, Kratom. Happy High Herbs, a herb store in the Oakland and San Francisco area continually promotes a passion for health and a deep ...

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Rivers happy to get Rondo back on point - Boston.com

4 Feb 2012 at 1:43am 

Boston.com

Rivers happy to get Rondo back on point
Boston.com
After missing eight games with a wrist injury, point guard Rajon Rondo returned to the lineup last night against the Knicks. The Celtics were able to go 6-2 in his absence. (Jonathan Wiggs/Globe Staff) By Gary Washburn The night began with an elbow to ...

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Happy Hour Roundup - Washington Post (blog)

3 Feb 2012 at 5:59pm 

Happy Hour Roundup
Washington Post (blog)
By Greg Sargent Note the chart at the end. Obama is still very vulnerable on the economy, and his story is a tough one to tell. But Dems will use visuals such as that one to try to drive home what happened as clearly as possible.

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