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How important are your religious views when it comes to dating/marriage?
I'm an agnostic guy but I share several values with Christians and would be perfectly happy dating/marrying a non-proselytizing Christian girl. So I was just wondering, would you date/marry someone who believes something different than you?

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I need advice if whether or not I should break up with my boyfriend and if it's my fault we aren't working out?
My boyfriend and I started out as friends. We would talk for over 2 hours on the phone almost every day without getting bored with one another when we were friends. We were able to confide in each other, accept each other, and have fun. We always had fun or funny conversations that entertained us both. He asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, but that's when it started going down hill. I'll admit, I have trust issues and when he would say something I thought was disrespectful, I wouldn't be my normal self. I would be annoyed with him. He's also a big flirt. Before we started dating, he was flirting with a bunch of girls. Then he ignored me for a few days and I got mad about it. We used to talk every day, and he just ignores me. Is that okay for me to be mad about if he did it just to play video games and smoke weed with his friends? Then I left for Christmas break and he ignored me for a few days again. I didn't get mad, but when he said that he missed me, I said that I didn't believe him. Why should I? People who miss others call them. He said something that made it sound like he thought I was beneath him. I wasn't mad, but I got a little rude with him. Finally when I came back, I didn't call him or text him because I was tired from a hectic trip. He ignored 3 texts and didn't bother to talk to me for more than a week. I want to break up with him. I'm not happy. Today I called him, he didn't answer, so I texted him to call me back. He didn't let me start the break up conversation, and hung up about 5 minutes into the call with an excuse. I know I was acting less of myself when we started dating, but he was flirting with other girls right before we started dating, he would ignore me, and sometimes say a bunch of insensitive things. Does this make me a high maintenance chick or was I right to be annoyed with him? I know my trust issues sometimes got in the way, but it's not like he tried either. I wasn't mad or moody all the time though. And I hate having to break up with someone I used to talk on the phone with forever. I'm not happy dating someone who doesn't seem to respect me or care about me. Am I jumping the gun? Thanks for your answers, but I must add a detail: I did sort of ignore him too. This past week when he ignored me, I only sent out 3 texts. 2 were on 2 days next to each other and the third was 6 days later saying that we should talk. When he has ignored me, I have ignored him also. I'm not constantly calling him or texting him. I've been giving him a lot of space. Today was the first day we have talked since before new years. We used to have phone conversations that would last over 3 hours! I'm not even kidding. I've even been able to go past my trust issues and talk to him about things that have happened in my life that I haven't told people before. I'll be honest, I have a disease. I have juvenile rheumatoid arthritis and I'm in pain most of the time, especially during the winter. I told him that it can affect my mood, but I've controlled my emotions unless he ignored me. I don't date much, because of my trust issues, and I'm not used to being with someone. But he doesn't act the wa

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Can I lose 80 lbs (pic included)?
I am currently 6'3", about 245 lbs. I want to lose about 80 lbs and get down to 165 because I want to be really skinny and I want to lose my upper body - my broad shoulders and chest. I don't care if some girls prefer bigger guys or if some skinny guys wish they were bigger...I can't stand being a big guy and I can't be happy, date anyone, or feel attractive unless I make myself a lot smaller. I just want to avoid ever being seen as a big guy or some football player or "teddy bear" or the myriad of awful remarks attributed to me ("You make me feel so small!"). Here is me about 10 lbs lighter than I am now: http://s1181.photobucket.com/albums/x421/ChewedUpInside/

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