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Imagine
by guest
22 May 2012 at 9:44am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Chris Guillebeau of ChrisGuillebeau.com. Imagine a life where all your time is spent on the things you want to do. Imagine giving your greatest attention to a project you create yourself, instead of working as a cog in a machine that exists to make other people rich. [...]
The Little Guide to Contentedness
by Leo
18 May 2012 at 1:31pm
‘He who is contented is rich.’ ~Lao Tzu Post written by Leo Babauta. There has been little in my life that has made as much an impact as learning to be content — with my life, where I am, what I’m doing, what I have, who I’m with, who I am. This little trick changes [...]
The 9-5 Guide to Staying Active
by guest
15 May 2012 at 9:00am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Matt Madeiro of Make Every Day Count. Let?s see if this rings any bells. When the clock hits 8, I sit. I plop back in my rolling chair, crack open the laptop on my desk, and spend the next nine hours with my butt glued firmly to [...]
Three Little Habits to Find Focus
by Leo
10 May 2012 at 11:42am
‘Distraction is the only thing that consoles us for miseries and yet it is itself the greatest of our miseries.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. I’ll be the first to admit that I fall victim to the trap of the Internet — a wonderful empowering tool that can fill your day with distractions, [...]
How to Live Well
by Leo
7 May 2012 at 1:59pm
‘Begin at once to live, and count each separate day as a separate life.’ ~Seneca Post written by Leo Babauta. I’m not a rich man, nor do I fly around the world and drink champagne with famous people in exotic locales, nor do I own a sports car or SUV or a yacht. And yet, [...]
What I?ve Learned About Learning
by Leo
3 May 2012 at 9:07am
‘We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself.’ ~Lloyd Alexander Post written by Leo Babauta. I am a teacher and an avid learner, and I’m passionate about both. I’m a teacher because I help Eva homeschool our kids — OK, [...]
The 39th Lesson
by Leo
30 Apr 2012 at 9:05am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Today (April 30) is my 39th Un-un-birthday, and as usual, the day is a good day to pause and reflect. Last year I wrote 38 Life Lessons I?ve Learned in 38 Years, and people seemed to find some use in it. This year, I thought I’d share an additional lesson [...]
How to Fail at Habits
by Leo
24 Apr 2012 at 11:28am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Before I learned how to change habits, I was stuck. I kept trying to change various habits — running, eating healthier, waking earlier, getting out of debt, ending procrastination — and I kept failing. I got very good at failing, in fact. Looking back on those days, given the power [...]
Webinar: How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life
by Leo
23 Apr 2012 at 8:00am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Yesterday I conducted a free webinar, “How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life“, and the video is below. The webinar was held Mon. April 23), and in it I talked about my struggle with bad habits, why bad habits are so powerful, and how I [...]
Crazy Talk: The Do-What-You-Love Guide
by Leo
19 Apr 2012 at 11:36am
‘Everything you can imagine is real.’ ~Pablo Picasso Post written by Leo Babauta. When I wrote the first words of this blog, more than five years ago, I had no idea those few keystrokes would change my life. I thought I was doing nothing more than reflecting on the changes that had been happening in [...]

 

 

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Here is your Saturday STORY on: SOLVING PROBLEMS: Most people solve problems by thrusting themselves headlong into them and hoping they come out smelling of roses. How much attention should you give to a problem? As much as is needed! How best to resolve a problem is initially based upon your store of knowledge and experience. Most every day the smaller problems are resolved using this store; if we don't pause for thought as a bigger problem arises, we'll rush in using this store of principles and beliefs. Pausing will allow us to consider whether we need to add to that store with new information for this new and larger problem. Time may be of the essence, but accuracy has a far better way of equipping you for life. Find the time to acquire the information you need to solve the problem. To RECOGNISE you're not properly equipped to solve a problem is half the battle. It is no sin, you will not lose face, your pride will still be intact and your peers will not ridicule your efforts to approach the problem in the proper manner. In today's story we have displayed honesty and fair play, which is a rare quality in business. But when so much emphasis is placed upon tactics, it is good to hear a story such as this. THE WINDOW SALESMAN Allow me to introduce you to Terry, a window salesman from England. If I take you back about 20 years, you'd know Terry as a complete newbie... a not-long-since teenager who was wet behind the ears in just about everything he attempted. The kind of person who couldn't sell false teeth to his own Granny; let alone compete with the other salespeople in the industry. You know the kind who could sell snow to Eskimos. So. to add a twist to this scenario, Terry's boss decides to send him out on a practical field trip on his first day. He throws him right into the deep end by asking him to visit an interested prospect at the posh end of town... where the big money is in Windows/Double-glazing sales. So off he goes. He was extremely nervous. With his hands shaking and his knees nobbling, he approaches the front door and thuds the door knocker several times. An oldish woman approaches and, after his first shaking introduction, she invites him in. He stays there for over 3 hours. Then, after dozens of cups of tea and mounds of biscuits, the woman signs a contract and purchases over 7000 worth of windows (that's over $11, 000 in U.S. dollars!) And, Here's The REAL Kicker - The woman had already spoken with 6 other dynamite glazing salesmen that week. ALL of them offered her a cheaper quote! That's right - Terry's price was the MOST expensive. He was also the most inexperienced salesman there ever was. So, what happened in the background? And moreover, how can you replicate these powerful sales techniques to step up a notch on your own profit ladder? Here comes the secret. The woman said, "She liked the young lad more than the others." That's ALL there was to it. She didn't care about the extra expense. Even the other slick salesmen couldn't persuade her to pay LESS than this young chap was asking for. The truth is, this lad's first impression shone brighter than any of the sales talk the others subjected the old woman to. First impressions count, and this young lad's courtesy, attitude, politeness and likability are what closed the sale. Not the sales hype. Not the low prices with the gigantic over-hyped benefits. But, the actual 'personality' and 'impression' the kid honestly gave was all that was required. If you market your own products and services, consider what impression you are giving to your prospects. If you appeal to them, then you've already done half of the work. If this means redesigning your presentation, then so be it. If this means going out of your way to be polite, helpful and giving the best possible shopping experience to your customers, then so be it. Is it really too much work to secure those big sales? I'll leave you to ponder on that thought. (by Gary Hanley) QUOTE: 'The soul is dyed the colour of your thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you do is who you become.' (Heraclitus; 535-274 BC (Approx), Philosopher and Author) [[ct]]: Give Me Happy

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Players happy to be back at work - NFL

22 May 2012 at 12:16pm  It was back to work for the Steelers on Tuesday at the first day of OTAs at the UPMC Sports Performance Complex on the South Side, and it was a packed house, with the majority of the veterans on hand. ?It?s awesome to be here out, see all of the smiles ...

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Edward Norton Is 'Really Happy' About Mark Ruffalo's 'Avengers' Success - MTV...

22 May 2012 at 11:47am  Mark Ruffalo is getting a lot of love for "The Avengers," and why shouldn't he? The Oscar-nominated actor did the seemingly impossible in Earth's mightiest superhero movie by delivering a Hulk that not only works, but flourishes and steals the ...

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Robert Kraft on Wes Welker: 'We'd like to see him be a Patriot for life but i...

22 May 2012 at 10:36am  "Well we'd like to see him be a Patriot for life but it takes two sides," Kraft told the NFL Network. "We're just happy he?s back in the system. He?s a wonderful young man, and a special guy. I think both sides would like to do a deal ...

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Happy Harvey Milk Day: Have a Milkshake - SF Weekly (blog)

22 May 2012 at 10:36am  Last week, we told you about those hatemongers up in Sacramento who wasted time and money trying to convince everyone to lock their kids inside for Harvey Milk Day, which, by the way, is today. And while we can't say for sure how many kids were forced to ...

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Planned Parenthood Wishes You a Happy "Masturbation Month" - Limelife

22 May 2012 at 10:14am  Gonna go out on a limb here and guess that Hallmark doesn't make a card for this particular holiday: Planned Parenthood tweeted wishes for a "Happy Masturbation Month" for its followers, along with a handy -- pun intended -- link to "lots of info on ...

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Kinect Now Knows When You're Happy, Sad, Planning to Turn It Off - PC World

22 May 2012 at 10:00am  Microsoft announced an updated version of its Kinect SDK, which adds a host of new features. (Among other things, now it can track your body while you're sitting down, easily record and play back tracking data, and do voice recognition in more languages.

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Kavanagh would fight anyone just to get a bout in Mexico Saturday - Irish-Box...

22 May 2012 at 9:24am  JAMIE  Kavanagh is so happy just to be fighting this weekend that he doesn?t care who he gets in the ring with. The Dubliner isn?t just spouting the usual ?I will fight anyone? rhetoric, he literally agreed to fight any of the fighters Golden Boy ...

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How to Be a Disappointing Stock Picker and Be Very Happy About It - msnbc.com

11 May 2012 at 12:43pm  I'm not going to lie: I wanted to be just like Jim Cramer and the other besuited prognosticators on CNBC. Years ago, when I started writing for The Motley Fool, I thought that I was headed in that direction. Not that I'd necessarily have my own ...

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How to Be Happy Without the Perfect Female Body - LiveScience.com

10 May 2012 at 9:24am  Girls and young women who have coping skills and family support may be best able to sustain a healthy body image amidst outside pressures. Being thin and beautiful doesn't sound like cause for concern, but that ideal can lead young women to be highly ...

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Astonishing News on How to Be Happy! - PRWeb

7 May 2012 at 5:56pm  Top-notch research studies on what it takes to be happy have been done at our country?s most prestigious institutions and all around the world. The first ever meta-analysis of this often startling research is revealed in a 20-page bonus section of ...

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big heartbreak..any survivors please help?
I know people will say you'll find someone who love you, adore you, treat you right or such. does that mean that I'll end up with someone I dont love this much, but he'll give me happy time every girls deserve? I decided to quit with my man this weekend after my visit that he acted so weird.. And I found an opened condom wrapper in his bin, we've been in Long-distance thing for half a year.. I wouldnt get so mad if he didnt do it just days before my visit- when he knew that I was going to see him! (Y_Y) if he do it later, after I left I wouldnt know.. anyway, knowing it now might be better than being dumped later knowing nothing I guess.. I know there're loads of people who have gone through something worse than me.. please , can you tell me how you're doing now? Find love with someone you love as much and he loves you too. or settle for less with someone who loves you so bad but you're not sure if you love him that much? ...I thought I found the one after many years of being single.. Im not the type who'd be someone gf just because I dont wanna be alone .. hmmm..

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heartbroken.. should I settle with someone I dont love much next time?
I know people will say you'll find someone who love you, adore you, treat you right or such. does that mean that I'll end up with someone I dont love this much, but he'll give me happy time every girls deserve? I decided to quit with my man this weekend after my visit that he acted so weird.. And I found an opened condom wrapper in his bin, we've been in Long-distance thing for half a year.. I wouldnt get so mad if he didnt do it just days before my visit- when he knew that I was going to see him! (Y_Y) if he do it later, after I left I wouldnt know.. anyway, knowing it now might be better than being dumped later knowing nothing I guess.. I know there're loads of people who have gone through something worse than me.. please , can you tell me how you're doing now? Find love with someone you love as much and he loves you too. or settle for less with someone who loves you so bad but you're not sure if you love him that much? ...I thought I found the one after many years of being single.. Im not the type who'd be someone gf just because I dont wanna be alone .. hmmm

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Is it weird that I actually LIKE the smell of a person I know who has B.O?
It reminds me of someone I knew in childhood, and that gives me happy memories, hence I really don't mind the smell of this person even though he repels everyone else. It may sound eww but I'm just being honest, Seth.

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