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The Two-Headed Beast of Successful Habit Change
by guest
2 Feb 2012 at 9:20am
Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Tyler Tervooren of Advanced Riskology. I used to have a lot of bad habits. I still do, but I used to have a lot more. Here?s just a small sampling: I woke up late and went to bed early. I procrastinated on my most important work. I [...]
Create the Habit of Meditation, & the Zen Habits Premium Membership
by Leo
31 Jan 2012 at 3:03pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. It’s something I should have created a long time ago: the Zen Habits Premium Membership, and a mini-course that’s included with it called Create the Habit of Meditation. The membership is a monthly subscription of $19.99, but really it’s a commitment to changing your life, and the tools needed to [...]
Creating Silence from Chaos
by Leo
27 Jan 2012 at 3:20pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. We are often afraid of silence, because its emptiness feels idle, boring, unproductive, and scary. And so we fill our lives with chaos, noise, clutter. But silence can be lovely, and therapeutic, and powerful. It can be the remedy for our stress and the habits that crush us. If we [...]
The Habits That Crush Us
by Leo
23 Jan 2012 at 11:26am
‘Don’t panic.’ ~Douglas Adams Post written by Leo Babauta. Why is it that we cannot break the bad habits that stand in our way, crushing our desires to live a healthy life, be fit, simplify, be happier? How is it that our best intentions are nearly always beaten? We want to be focused and productive, [...]
Learning to Sit Alone, in a Quiet Empty Room
by Leo
17 Jan 2012 at 1:49pm
‘All men’s miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. Think about some of the problems of our daily lives, and how many of them would be eased if we could learn to sit alone, in a quiet empty room, with contentment. If [...]
Life as a Conscious Practice
by Leo
13 Jan 2012 at 9:15am
‘Everything is practice.’ ~Pele Post written by Leo Babauta. When we learn a martial art, or ballet, or gymnastics, or soccer ? we consciously practice movements in a deliberate way, repeatedly. By conscious, repeated practice, we become good at those movements. Our entire lives are like this, but we’re often less conscious of the practice. [...]
Your Top 10 Clutter Questions, Answered
by Leo
11 Jan 2012 at 11:33am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Decluttering is a skill that you learn with practice, just like any skill. And just like other skills, there are many little questions and problems you need answered and solved as you get started. Those of you taking the Clutterfat Challenge this month are facing these problems, and I’m here [...]
Clearing Your Life for a New Year
by Leo
9 Jan 2012 at 12:55pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. Every January, people rush out and get a gym membership, set a list of goals or resolutions, and get ready to take on a new year of frenetic activity. Unfortunately, we don’t often clear space to make room for all this new stuff. The beginning of the year is a [...]
How to Tackle Your Clutter
by Leo
6 Jan 2012 at 12:19pm
Post written by Leo Babauta. So you’ve been putting off tackling your clutter for months, maybe even years. Papers pile up on a counter, shelves are crammed full of books and magazines and other things, closets are stuffed to the point of spillage, clothes pile up on the floor or furniture, boxes and furniture and [...]
How to Have the Best Year of Your Life (without Setting a Single Goal)
by guest
5 Jan 2012 at 9:15am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Jeff Goins of Goins, Writer. This new year, do something different: stop setting goals. If the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results, then making resolutions for another year is a sure-fire way to drive yourself crazy. I did [...]


Commitment

Here is your Tuesday STORY on: Where are you going to be in the near future? Wisdom rarely tries to equip you for your future, other than promotes the virtues of planning. However, the one important factor that has so many attributes is to get the period right NOW under control and everything that emanates from it will be good. So it would appear to follow that if you wanted a bright and successful future, all you need to do is to start getting the NOW under control. How you perceive the NOW is the plan for your future. Habit will take you where you've always been, break that habit and develop the NOW so your future improves. Today's story illustrates how we become blinkered in our approach. DO NOT ACT LIKE AN ELEPHANT! In India, elephants are used for manual labour. When an elephant is small and weighs approximately 200 pounds, it is securely tied with a heavy-duty rope. In between "jobs, " the elephant tries to break through its limitation. The calf whines and tugs and even tries to chew through the rope, but it is unable to break free. Finally, the elephant gives up its will. He accepts his circumstances. His spirit is broken. The elephant believes there is absolutely no chance to free himself and overcome his "limitation." This is recognized as a "defining moment." A defining moment is the exact moment one adopts/accepts a new belief that drastically alters their life. They accept this "new belief" as a "truth, " regardless if it is true or not. Because the brain accepts repetition of thought and deduction as "the truth, " the rope reigns sovereign not only in the calf's immediate environment, but in his mind as well. With this "belief" deeply embedded in the elephant's mind, his handler came up with an ingenious idea to permanently disempower him. He realized all that was needed was to tie the four-ton animal up with extremely small ropes and he would remain tied. You see in the elephant's mind, any size rope would keep him "securely confined." Do not act like an elephant. Size up and break through the confining ropes in your mind. When you're faced with change, change your perspective. When you're overwhelmed with something new; change your view. Use affirmations, to eradicate limitations and nothing will be impossible for you! (Fran Briggs) (Fran Briggs is the founder of the F. Briggs Group, Personal Growth Facilitators. She is the author of several books and over 300 articles including, "Set Yourself Up for Success!" Ms. Briggs is a "motivational speaker of the inspirational kind." She speaks to audiences of children and adults of all ages and backgrounds, with the aim of inspiring them to their respective levels of greatness.) QUOTE: "The best way to predict your future is to invent it.' (Alan Kay)


Ladies: Is it too much to ask for a limited relationship ?
I mean a relationship where the man is not expected to give a commitment, never talk about marriage, just hang out, have a good time, enjoy each others company, and a relationship where the woman NEVER brings up, talks about or expects marriage.....? OK, what I meant was I would have a normal relationship, however, not one that would ever lead to marriage. What is so horrible or unrealistic about that...? Must ALL relationships lead to marriage....!

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What is the name of this song and who sings it?
Purge me Lord Wash me Lord With Your blood Make me white as snow Give me a clean heart I'm tired of running Lord I surrender Deliver me from sin and shame Make me holy Give me a clean heart I've been running Running for a long time Living in a world of sin I didn't have no peace within After all the times, You took me in I still chose iniquity, as my friend Lord I'm sorry I was wrong And I repent Lord I need you to purge me While I was searching Searching for commitment I often found myselff In all the wrong places It ttook some time But now I realize There is no other way I need Your love And Your cleansing power My heart is heavy Purge me Lord make me whole Save my soul I need ou to touch my mind I want to be more like You I ned You to touch my heart Cleanse me through and through Lord I won't run anymore I'm never gonnan leave Your side I commit my life to You Jesus And now I'm ready to go a little higher My soul is ready My heart is fixed My minds mad up I'm ready to go a little highe Fill my cup Fill it up til it overflows So everyone will know that i've been washed in Your blood Your precious blood Give me a clean heart Make me holy

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Long Distance Relationship help. Please help..?
So I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and we've never met in person or used skype or anything (we're both 17 .. turning 18 this year) and things haven't been going good lately and I don't know what to do anymore.. lately i feel like he has changed or something.. in the beginning i didn't really like him and didn't plan on the relationship lasting long but i began to fall in love with him and i wouldn't let myself at first and he could tell so we had a long deep conversation one night and he told me it was okay to love him and that he wouldn't hurt me and stuff and i eventually let myself and now it seems like he doesn't feel the same way anymore i have to almost beg him to text me back in a reasonable amount of time and recently we had an argument about me coming to see him on my birthday because im not ready to do that yet especially since he isn't acting like my boyfriend already ... and once day he told me hes scared of commitment and that hes scared he wont get to do anything because he has a girl friend but we've been together for 3 years and he is the one who told me he wanted to take it seriously and stuff but now he acts like he doesn't care.. i have been crying a lot lately because i don't know what to do with the relationship anymore ... i no longer feel loved and im only happy when he acts right which is rare . i know the obvious advice would be to break up with him but i cant i have tried so many times but i just cant ;( i love him so much and i want this to work between us but im tired of fighting for it alone ... i shouldn't feel alone in the relationship and i do and he doesn't seem to understand it... lately every weekend i have had to send him long text messages about how he needs to change and stop acting that way and every time i say im gonna leave him he says no and that im the best thing that ever happened to him and that he loves me so much and how he cant live without me and i end up going back the next day because i miss him... i don't know how to let go i want to but i don't at the same time because its been him and only him for so long i don't know what i would do without him... :( i need serious advice .. sorry for this being all over the place and long... i just typed whatever came to my mind.. thanks in advance..

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The Hard Way Out of Afghanistan

5 Feb 2012 at 12:00am  For years, in the village of Juz Ghoray, at the remote fringes of the Musa Qala District in northern Helmand Province, the Taliban enjoyed free rein, collecting taxes from local poppy farmers and staging attacks on any foreign patrol that moved within shooting range of an abrupt desert prominence called Ugly Hill. After a Marine unit found nine...

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Commitment to diversity varies among major Memphis economic development proje...

4 Feb 2012 at 11:03pm 

Commitment to diversity varies among major Memphis economic development projects
Memphis Commercial Appeal
However, questions about the kitchen appliance factory's diversity commitment have framed the issue of how much money should be funneled to disadvantaged businesses by companies receiving public incentives. Electrolux said in a construction agreement ...



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Signing day becomes a commitment to craziness - GoErie.com

4 Feb 2012 at 10:22pm 

Signing day becomes a commitment to craziness
GoErie.com
"If there is a theme to the 2012 class, it's that a commitment doesn't mean anything anymore," Huffman said. It actually means about as much as a coach's commitment to a school. Ask the kids who thought they were going to Rutgers to play for Greg ...

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Commitment to backing products wanes with quality - Boston Globe

4 Feb 2012 at 10:13pm 

Commitment to backing products wanes with quality
Boston Globe
And so has the commitment to stand behind those products. For most of us, our expectations remain somewhat higher than the reality of cheaply manufactured goods, and it's bitterly disappointing when a product fails or, in this case, fades long before ...



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Dennis Bloss: Fighting copper theft requires commitment from many quarters - ...

4 Feb 2012 at 9:06pm 

Dennis Bloss: Fighting copper theft requires commitment from many quarters
Huntington Herald Dispatch
The people of West Virginia want and deserve reliable communications services, and Frontier Communications is committed to meeting its customers' expectations. But copper thieves have become increasingly selfish in West Virginia and other states, ...

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Calhoun not reconsidering UConn commitment - ESPN (blog)

4 Feb 2012 at 5:48pm 

Calhoun not reconsidering UConn commitment
ESPN (blog)
By Matt Ehalt Connecticut-bound shooting guard Omar Calhoun told ESPNNewYork.com on Saturday that he is not reconsidering his commitment to UConn in light of Huskies' coach Jim Calhoun's medical leave of absence. The shooting guard, the No.

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PBS NewsHour: Questions linger about Komen's commitment to Planned Parenthood...

4 Feb 2012 at 12:19pm 

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PBS NewsHour: Questions linger about Komen's commitment to Planned Parenthood
AMERICAblog (blog)
By John Aravosis on 2/04/2012 02:13:00 PM Ya think? The NewsHouse delves into the points I made yesterday. Namely, that Komen didn't "fix" all the reasons it said it wasn't going to fund Planned Parenthood breast exams in the future.
Komen Now Waffling on Their Planned Parenthood Grant CommitmentFiredoglake
Cancer Group Backs Down on Cutting Off Planned ParenthoodNew York Times (blog)
Susan G. Komen Apologizes; Planned Parenthood Eligible for Grants AgainNBC Los Angeles
Pekin Daily Times -Boston Globe
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US vows commitment to Europe despite Asia focus - AFP

4 Feb 2012 at 10:10am 

AFP

US vows commitment to Europe despite Asia focus
AFP
In a twin effort to reassure Europe about the historic US commitment to the continent, US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton and Secretary of Defence Leon Panetta delivered carefully calibrated messages of support. Hot foreign policy issues such as ...
NATO Reaffirms Commitment to 2014 Lisbon Goal in AfghanistaneNews Park Forest
US reassures Europe of commitment to securityDeutsche Welle

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Chris Huhne Resignation in Britain Shakes Cameron?s Coalition

4 Feb 2012 at 12:00am  LONDON — Prime Minister David Cameron ’s coalition government was shaken on Friday when criminal charges for perverting the course of justice in an eight-year-old speeding case were laid against Chris Huhne, the minister of energy and climate change . Mr. Huhne, 57, immediately resigned and said that he would mount a “robust...

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Questions Linger About Komen's Commitment to Planned Parenthood - PBS NewsHour

3 Feb 2012 at 8:30pm 

PBS NewsHour

Questions Linger About Komen's Commitment to Planned Parenthood
PBS NewsHour
Even after the Susan G. Komen for the Cure charity reversed course Friday and said it would not halt grants to Planned Parenthood over a Republican-led congressional investigation, a number of observers wondered if Planned Parenthood might eventually ...
Megyn Kelly Panel Battles Over Whether Planned Parenthood's Commitment To ...Mediaite
Planned Parenthood receives Komen apologyBoston.com
Charity restores cancer fundingSan Antonio Express
CNN (blog) -ABC News (blog) -TIME
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