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The Little Guide to Contentedness
by Leo
18 May 2012 at 1:31pm
‘He who is contented is rich.’ ~Lao Tzu Post written by Leo Babauta. There has been little in my life that has made as much an impact as learning to be content — with my life, where I am, what I’m doing, what I have, who I’m with, who I am. This little trick changes [...]
The 9-5 Guide to Staying Active
by guest
15 May 2012 at 9:00am
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Matt Madeiro of Make Every Day Count. Let?s see if this rings any bells. When the clock hits 8, I sit. I plop back in my rolling chair, crack open the laptop on my desk, and spend the next nine hours with my butt glued firmly to [...]
Three Little Habits to Find Focus
by Leo
10 May 2012 at 11:42am
‘Distraction is the only thing that consoles us for miseries and yet it is itself the greatest of our miseries.’ ~Blaise Pascal Post written by Leo Babauta. I’ll be the first to admit that I fall victim to the trap of the Internet — a wonderful empowering tool that can fill your day with distractions, [...]
How to Live Well
by Leo
7 May 2012 at 1:59pm
‘Begin at once to live, and count each separate day as a separate life.’ ~Seneca Post written by Leo Babauta. I’m not a rich man, nor do I fly around the world and drink champagne with famous people in exotic locales, nor do I own a sports car or SUV or a yacht. And yet, [...]
What I?ve Learned About Learning
by Leo
3 May 2012 at 9:07am
‘We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself.’ ~Lloyd Alexander Post written by Leo Babauta. I am a teacher and an avid learner, and I’m passionate about both. I’m a teacher because I help Eva homeschool our kids — OK, [...]
The 39th Lesson
by Leo
30 Apr 2012 at 9:05am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Today (April 30) is my 39th Un-un-birthday, and as usual, the day is a good day to pause and reflect. Last year I wrote 38 Life Lessons I?ve Learned in 38 Years, and people seemed to find some use in it. This year, I thought I’d share an additional lesson [...]
How to Fail at Habits
by Leo
24 Apr 2012 at 11:28am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Before I learned how to change habits, I was stuck. I kept trying to change various habits — running, eating healthier, waking earlier, getting out of debt, ending procrastination — and I kept failing. I got very good at failing, in fact. Looking back on those days, given the power [...]
Webinar: How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life
by Leo
23 Apr 2012 at 8:00am
Post written by Leo Babauta. Yesterday I conducted a free webinar, “How I Used the Power of Bad Habits to Change My Life“, and the video is below. The webinar was held Mon. April 23), and in it I talked about my struggle with bad habits, why bad habits are so powerful, and how I [...]
Crazy Talk: The Do-What-You-Love Guide
by Leo
19 Apr 2012 at 11:36am
‘Everything you can imagine is real.’ ~Pablo Picasso Post written by Leo Babauta. When I wrote the first words of this blog, more than five years ago, I had no idea those few keystrokes would change my life. I thought I was doing nothing more than reflecting on the changes that had been happening in [...]
Why We Overplan
by Leo
17 Apr 2012 at 8:40am
‘A good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving.’ ~Lao Tzu Post written by Leo Babauta. There is something about my mind, and many people’s minds, that is overly optimistic. We think we can do so much each day, and so we overplan. We fill our plans with so much, confident [...]

 

 

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Here is your Thursday STORY on: ADAPTING TO CHANGE: Some change is forced upon you. Without doubt this is the change you may fear most, and justifiably so. But there is an answer. The answer is trust. You must trust your ability to adapt. Allow yourself to wallow in sadness for a while, perhaps a few hours, a few days, or a few weeks depending on the circumstances. Then time itself will help you adapt to change. (Allow me to excuse one change. If you are faced with bereavement, then this is a change that few can expect. My advice would be to accept counselling from all; that means both the authorities and your family and friends. Cherish the happy memories and allow time to help heal the emptiness). Imagine your very first love, and I beg forgiveness for those who still live their first love, but at the moment the relationship ceases, you'd had thought that the world would end. Your friends and family would have given the appropriate support. For every 5 plus factors in a relationship, there are normally one or two factors that you struggle with. Breaking up from your first love is a big learning process, not that you could see that at the time. Every subsequent relationship is built on a better fundamentals; and so therefore... should every other aspect of your life. Just a little trust and both small and big changes will not become so fearful. The next story confirms if any suspicion exists, that events happen for a reason. Adapting to change following such an event will be done from strength and not from fear and weakness. A DONKEY, A ROOSTER AND A LAMP Rabbi Moshe took a trip to a strange land. He took a donkey, a rooster, and a lamp. Since he was a Jew, he was refused hospitality in the village inns, so he decided to sleep in the woods. He lit his lamp to study the holy books before going to sleep, but a fierce wind came up, knocking over the lamp and breaking it. The rabbi decided to turn in, saying, "All that God does, he does well." During the night some wild animals came along and drove away the rooster and thieves stole the donkey. Moshe wake up, saw the loss, but still proclaimed easily, "All that God does, he does well." The rabbi then went back to the village where he was refused lodging, only to learn that enemy soldiers had invaded it during the night and killed all the inhabitants. He also learned that these soldiers had travelled through the same part of the woods where he lay asleep. Had his lamp not been broken he would have been discovered. Had not the rooster been chased, it would have crowed, giving him away. Had not the donkey been stolen, it would have brayed. So once more Rabbi Moshe declared, "All that God does, he does well!" (Author Unknown) QUOTE: 'Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strength. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is your strength.' (Arnold Schwartzenegger, Actor) [[ct]]: 7 Steps Happy

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Kimbra happy to be back in Perth

19 May 2012 at 3:42am  SHE'S the voice behind the biggest song to come out of Australia in a decade, but global sensation Kimbra says she's happiest in Perth.

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How to live without regrets - Herald Sun

19 May 2012 at 3:08am 

How to live without regrets
Herald Sun
WHEN your time is up, will you be happy with the life you've lived? It's time to make those changes now. If you are not familiar with the term "bucket list", it refers to a list of the things you would like to do before you die (kick the bucket).

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No happy ending: 1 family's struggle with autism - NECN

18 May 2012 at 11:15pm 

No happy ending: 1 family's struggle with autism
NECN
But their story is not a happy one. And it is one they suspect is all too similar to others in Berks County. The disorder is often associated with the autistic savant played by Dustin Hoffman in the movie "Rain Man," but only about one in 10 autistic ...



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CHIVAS: Califf happy, despite his words - ESPN (blog)

18 May 2012 at 10:56pm 

ESPN (blog)

CHIVAS: Califf happy, despite his words
ESPN (blog)
He and his family were happy in Philly, and he had no desire to come home. Paul Frederiksen/US Presswire Danny Califf, though excited to play for Chivas USA, says he did not ask for a trade from Philadelphia as some have said.

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Fatboy Slim wishes a happy 2d birthday to Royale - Boston Globe

18 May 2012 at 10:11pm 

Boston Globe

Fatboy Slim wishes a happy 2d birthday to Royale
Boston Globe
I'm very happy with the respect I get [for] my contribution over the years to it. And I'm really happy that I'm still here. It's not like I'm just being wheeled out as some token granddad. I can still hold my own and wow 'em.

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139th Brigade happy to be home

18 May 2012 at 6:27pm  Love and happiness were everywhere you looked. They are sons and daughter, husbands and wives, fathers and mothers. They are also soldiers, grateful to be home after a year long deployment to Iraq and Kuwait.

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139th Brigade happy to be home - KSFY

18 May 2012 at 6:26pm 

139th Brigade happy to be home
KSFY
You can try to summarize it into how happy, but you just fall short," said Sergeant Matthew Gjernes. Added Roger Miles, "Amazing. It's awesome that we have such a large support group here. It's really nice to know that everyone is caring for us.

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Taylor Armstrong: Be Happy With Yourself And You Will Be Happy In Love - Holl...

18 May 2012 at 4:24pm 

PerezHilton.com

Taylor Armstrong: Be Happy With Yourself And You Will Be Happy In Love
Hollywood Life
?Figuring out how to be happy on my own is something that I've never done until now. And finding that has been a pretty powerful lesson for me,? Taylor says. ?I was going through journals and past relationships and I realized how much power I gave away ...
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I'm happy for Wood, but what are the Cubs doing? - Chicago Tribune (blog)

18 May 2012 at 3:57pm 

I'm happy for Wood, but what are the Cubs doing?
Chicago Tribune (blog)
A happy ending, for sure. I'm not blaming Wood. I'd do the same thing if I could. But the sentimental specter appears to make official what we already believed: This Cubs season doesn't matter, no matter what Theo Epstein said.

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Lampard: Chelsea happy to be underdog in Munich - SI.com

18 May 2012 at 2:12pm 

Goal.com

Lampard: Chelsea happy to be underdog in Munich
SI.com
MUNICH (AP) -Chelsea is just fine with being labeled the underdog against favored Bayern Munich in the Champions League final, stand-in captain Frank Lampard said Friday. Lampard acknowledged that Bayern has an advantage playing in the "amazing'' ...
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